when we was still together he would always tell me he love me with all his heart. i been hurt so many times by this other boywho i was with 4 6yrs. til i don't believe nothin my ex say. he say he 4 real and everythin but my heart don't believe him
2006-12-23 18:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him.
The best connection between those in a relationship is communication.Maybe he doesnt know how you feel, he may think you believe him when he expresses his love to you, and dear i dont blame you for being apprehensive if you've been hurt before, yet try telling him how you feel, if you can't believe him, maybe you're not in love with him...you may be in denial, dont worry about him getting angry, it will happen, but dont keep things to yourself.I was in your situation before, where i'd been hurt and had become defensive with my partner, and after it got too much to bear, i told him everything, we both came to the conclusion that i needed time to sort out my thoughts, and he was prepared to wait as long as it took, and he did, I believe he loves me now, because he expresses it in a different way.
Saying "i love you" isn't enough, just like their are silent wars, there are silent emotions, and these are expressed or felt without words, you could be sitting next to him, and be hearing "i love you" even though he wasn't saying it.Confront him, ask him "why" he loves you, and tell him to think over it a few days, if he can come up with something that leaves you speechless, then yes, he definately loves you, if he doesn't bother, dont get depressed! there are a million other men out there girl, stop viewing one as a focal point, branch out...
tell me how it goes, and if you have any trouble, feel free to send me an email.
Rave.
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-23 18:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy, follow your heart. People do deserve second chances but thats only if what they did deserves a second chance. I didn't cheat on my girlfriend or do anything bad to her but she is now my ex because I smothered her. I didn't give her space. I deserve a second chance and she's not going to give me one. My best friend cheats on a girl and he gets a second chance... follow your heart, think about why you're not with him... and make a decision from that. What will make you happy?
2006-12-24 02:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by X Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that you hella still like him, you should try and work things out.... i think that you dont want to believer him because you are sick and tired of gettin your heart broken and you dont want to go through the pain again.......but like i said if you think you still want him take him back.....but if he hurts you again then kick em to the curb.....cause i think that if someone really loves you the last thing they would want to do is hurt you!! good luck
2006-12-24 02:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by jenny_b2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-12-24 02:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S UR EX
U BROKE UP WITH HIM FOR A REASON
ND NO ONE SHOULD BELIEVE THEIR EX FOR LOVE
2006-12-24 02:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥R♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good! Leave him alone and find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-12-24 02:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him.. u can find a new b/f... guy is not one..
2006-12-24 02:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweet candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...
2006-12-24 02:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋