We got into it the other night and he told me that he know i was cheatn on him with another boy. and he told me that we can end our relationship now. cause he didn't give a f**k. and now we want me back.and he live a hour away from me.
2006-12-23 18:06:50 · 9 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you WANT to take him back? If you care about him and you want to be with him, then take him back. Whatever he said when you broke up about not caring was just because he was hurting.
2006-12-23 18:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well did you cheat on him? If you did that can be a reason why he said all those hateful things........but if you didnt cheat on him then maybe he was just struggling with his own insecurity.....but if you think that you really want to be wit him then you should take him back...but only if you feel that you are making the right decision..dont just take him back because you feel sorry for him... Good luck!! and an hour away isnt anything........
2006-12-24 02:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by jenny_b2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me, it looks as though he is staging this shiittt! You know the ole "pick a fight" to get out of a relationship and now the grass isn't so green on the other side. Because technically if it is blatantly clear that you are not cheating and he is just trying mind control tactics to keep you blind from what he is doing. I wouldn't go back to him. Think About it.....
2006-12-24 02:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you.. i will not want to be back with the ex-boyfriend. he is the one doesnt wants me and not wants me back? he treated me like a doll? rubbish? did you really cheat on him with another guy? if you didnt and he doesnt trust you and results in breaking off. Do you think in the long run, he will still trust you? one of my girlfriend accepted the ex-boyfriend back and got married..4years later (now), ended up in seperation. Girls youth has expire date.. dont spend time on a man who dnt trust u and easily saying want to break off. If you really still love him.. its up to you.. just wish you good luck!
2006-12-24 02:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Janep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want this person and he wants you,then you need to be real right now and let him know you will not be having this thrown in your face and discuss your issues that led to this and resolve them now it the time, otherwise things are just going to go on messy and unresolved resentments just get uglier and cause alot of unecessary drama
2006-12-24 02:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everone deserves another chance! but still trust is the main issue! and it's not easy to take people like that back!
but if you really like him and love him and you think there is still a chance between the two of you then go get him!
2006-12-24 02:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is your answer:
Does being with him make you happier than without?
If Yes - stay with him, If No - life is short do what makes you happy, move on.
2006-12-24 02:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"**** **** him back...... after wat he did to u,.....shoot he just something from u he doesnt want a relationship he just want **** hes gonna hurt u again after hes done..... u shouldnt even have to ask this question.....y waste u r time with a guy like him" this part is 4 da guy who wants u back replace all da he with she n him with her yeah........ if he didnt care da first time den y he want u back..... y did u cheat in da first place.... u a player.....
2006-12-24 02:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by lito-azndr3am3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go to find some that he can rule and find some one who deserves you!
2006-12-24 02:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋