Okay so i'm 16 and i've rubbed my clit before as masturbation, but never actually stuck my finger "up". Well apparently I just did so, through my stretchy PJ pants. I just wanted to know if that's a bad thing? I'm really not doing this to be funny its just a health question. Please answer quickly, I don't want to hurt my body!
PS. Does it matter how far I stick my finger up?
2006-12-23 17:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I just feel so odd sticking my finger inside of myself.
2006-12-23 17:29:52 · update #1
Perfectly normal to experiment with yourself. And safe from pregnantcy and disease.
2006-12-23 17:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT gross, it is not dirty, it is not sin.
Masturbation, for both men and women, is natural and healthy. In fact it is encouraged. It does not matter how one does it as long as it is done.
Now, to your q., I would say doing it with the PJ introduces bacteria unnecessarily. You should avoid it. If you have had no reaction so far - such as redness or itchyness, you are probably OK. Just don't do it anymore with cloth. It gets wet and you will be hard put to explain when dry and the cloth is stiff/rough the next morning when you put it in the laundry pile.
Plain finger contact is not only enjoyable, it is also healthy. Make sure you keep your fingernails clean because you want to avoid introducing bacteria by that method. Just do it. Don't worry about anything.
Good luck and enjoy.
2006-12-23 17:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no! its perfectly normal!! let me tell you a story i learned in my college psychology class i tookt his past semester...
when we are yougn and potty trainging girls are taught that it is "dirty down there" so we bever touch ourselves done there till out late teens and into our 20's
sicne we have 3 holes we are raised that its dirty...
boys ont he other hand. its okay for themselves to touch it cause they have to when they use the bathroom so they arent raised that its "dirty" this is why men start to masturbate at an earlier age. and women dont start till their 20's
i started before my preteens....i dont remember peopler telling me "that its dirty down there" it is perfectly normal. you are only exploring your body adn you will find out yout likes and dislikes. you are ot hurting yourself and you wont.. you cant. unless you are using other objects and are really rought then you could bleed. but other than that it is perfectly safe. and yes you can stick your finger in all the way you will not hurt your reproductive organs or antyhing. there is a hard round thing... thats the cervix that protects all of the organs.
it is not a bad thing and is perfetly healthy ther are even soem health benefits to masturbating. when you have an orgasm you relaes endorphins (the happy hormone) it can make you have a glow to your face, make you feel better (lol) and relieve stress.! so there are benefits but really no side effects or health risks to masturbating!
2006-12-23 18:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your PJ's are clean, it shouldn't matter. Just try doing it directly next time, without fabric in the way. It doesn't matter how far you stick your finger up as long as you don't hurt yourself. Don't try it with long nails, though, wooooooo! Be careful and enjoy. :)
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-23 17:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not gross, EVERYBODY MASTURBATES!!!! i mean everyone. its good that you can ask a question, me i would not stick anyfingers up because you could risk puitting germs up there and cause all kinds of infections, rubbing your clit usually is the best way to have an orgasm, make sure you wash your hands before and after. ive been masturbating for as long as i can remember, and im married!!!! self stimulation is fun AND safe,
2006-12-23 18:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by dezmar_tyson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone enjys different things. Certain points are only fun when someone else does it, but....
This was so not the place to ask this question! ew ew ew bad bad bad... and now i'm done with my tenyearold reaction.
Either way, you won't enjoy everything your partner does to you, why would you enjoy everything you do to yourself? I know it's weird to think of it that way, but it makes sense.
Happy holidays.
PS
If you think it's bad doing it at 16, I started in 2nd grade. No one told me it was wrong, sue me :P
2006-12-23 19:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not harmful, so don't worry.
Just next time do it with out the PJs, it will most likely feel better,
Have Fun!
2006-12-24 08:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you do come to a dead end and it might be better to experiment without cloth. Just a suggestion.
Merely as a thought thats all.
2006-12-23 17:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it`s not a bad thing! ...and about it mattering how far, well, your fingers can only go so far anyway.
2006-12-23 17:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by x_rakkauslaulu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it wont hurt you, but thats kinda gross.
2006-12-23 17:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by miekaonfire!™[NObama] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋