my best friend moved in august and i'm still sad over it. its not the only reason i'm depessed. i just feel so lonely all the time and i do have a lot of friends, but they don't understand how i'm feeling. and the stupidest smallest things make me sad, and i just want to be happy but i can't be. i don't know what to do. i dread this whole year. i just want to go back to last year when everything was good and i was happy.
2006-12-23 17:17:42 · 16 answers · asked by cstr81190 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Convert it to anger and do push ups
2006-12-23 17:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by New Jersey Steve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY how you feel.... Except at school.. I feel like i hardly have any friends... I've only got about 1 close friend and the other friend hangs out with some other people.... but I know what you mean by lonely... I dont know if you're into this or anything... but God has been teaching me some things... He taught me to be content with what I have, even though I feel lonely and I totally dislike my school and want out... That I have to lean on him for strength and I feel stronger than I was before... I used to just feel sad and wanted to cry and didn't want to go to school, but now i feel stronger inside and that I can do it, only because Jesus loves me and He died for me so that I can live.. Also, to realize we are soo blessed is absolutely hard to fathom sometimes... Like we take it for granted soo easily... but hun, don't ever worry about fitting in... I barely fit in, and I could care less anymore... God is giving me more and more strength, you just need perseverance and determination to get through this... and remember there's a light at the end of the tunnel... you can do it!!! I believe in you!!!
Email me ANYTIME... even if you just want to talk... I'm here for you...
thecross_mylife@hotmail.com
Blessings Sweetie
Crystal
2006-12-24 01:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna be happy, you can be happy. Don't obsess yourself with what has passed. You may keep those very happy past in your mind all the time, n' compare it to your present which may not be your best moment. But life is fun becoz it's different due to the time. It's sometimes good, sad, hard, cruel or beautiful. Otherwise your life would be borin'. Just do something that you like very much, music, sports, pets, whatever, you know it best.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 01:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Da--?????-????H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, I know; but we just have to fake it until it becomes a part of us. Smile.
You're young - what do you like to do? For old folks like us, we go for a facial or massage or simply soaking in a bath with all the wonderful aroma and light a candle. Surround ourselves with beautiful thing, listen to beautiful melody. Maybe you should be in church. God heals me; He will heal you too. You can do volunteer work; helping others has helped me.
Read or watch something that makes you laugh. Call up your best friend; you can still IM or talk to her even though she moved away.
2006-12-24 01:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times you can't control depression. I've suffered with it for years and it's not a condition you would like to be in. If you don't feel any better when trying your best to get involved with friends and activities, I would seriously talk to a Dr. There are alot of medications out there that can do wonders and make you feel better.
2006-12-24 01:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, i had a few problems that made me very depressed. what you need to do is get yourself up and say that your gonna make the best of any situation. i know it's hard with your bf moving but, make sure you keep in touch with her and you'll start to feel better. trust me i wish i could go back to last year too. i can' t wait till new years, this means you get to start a new year (fresh)......make the most of life even if your depressed. i hope this helps some..
2006-12-24 01:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel that way, and please believe me when i tell you that you were just explaining how i feel..... i have friends too but they can't understand this, some times they tell me that I'm making it looks bigger deal than it is. they say i have no reasons to be that way but i don't know....that's why I'm on this site, i thought that maybe i can find some one feels the same or at least can understand
so don't worry maybe all what you need is to talk to some one who understand, why won't you try me?
Good Luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-24 01:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I play the perfect song that i have on my ipod or anywhere else that would fit right into what made my day depresing then i would call my best friend. But oviaslly your situation you need somethingelse put the deprestion behind you and move on.
2006-12-24 01:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not alone. just think about the good things in life and talk about your feelings to one friend that you think might be almost as close as your other friend even if you think they don't understand. you'll be surprized of how much they understand and how much better you feel. be strong! and you can always call your friend
2006-12-24 01:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Holly♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from the deepest of my heart,pray to god ,ask him to guide you and to never leave you lonely,and ask him to work a miracle in your life!then ask him to show you a sighn that he is really listening to your prayer.And I prommise ,I guarantee you that you will see a sighn!Dont ever forget about god!
2006-12-24 01:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋