I have been married for 8 yrs. We don't seem to respect each other. I don't want to break our relationship because we have a child together. He is a good man and I am a good wife. His mood and voice hurt me the most on who he said.
2006-12-23 17:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by peteseng 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does not cuss, but he expressed by being rude.
2006-12-23 17:18:26 · update #1
I have no one to talk to, so I feel sad and often want to cry.
2006-12-23 17:21:08 · update #2
Time to have a long talk on what is bothering him. Ask him what it is that you do that he does not like. Ask him what he wants in your relationship and also tell him what you expect as it works both ways. People in a relationship just don't communicate enough as to what each wants. Good luck.....
2006-12-23 17:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should respect him even if he does not respect you. You should always treat others the way you want to be treated. You guys need to talk with oe another and tell each other how each other feels and make changes where needed. Remember it is a two way street.
2006-12-24 01:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by shay s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spousal abuse isn't limited to physical or sexual abuse. It's also verbal and emotional abuse. I'm sure that your husband doesn't mean to hurt you. And I'm also sure that you love your husband and the both of you love your child. So for the sake of your marriage and the sake of your child, seek marital counseling ASAP. If he doesn't want to seek that kind of counseling, then go alone. I'm sure that the counselor will be able to help you to coax him into going.
Best of luck. :)
2006-12-24 01:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Don R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he depressed? He may need to be seen by your family doctor.
Set limits. Don't let him boss you around. But be the best wife and mother you can.
Have a life. Spend time with friends.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 01:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by njspanteach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help, but I dont understand.
His mood and voice hurt me the most on who he said.?????
2006-12-24 01:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK YA NEED 2 HAVE A LONG CONVERSATION ON RESPECT.IF YA BEEN MARIED DIS LONG YA SHOULD HAVE THIS TAKEN CARE OF.N U SHOULD TELL HIM ABOUT THE WAY HE ACTS N HOW IT HURTS U SO HE CAN WORK ON IT.A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT COMMUNICATION,RESPECT N HONESTY.
2006-12-24 01:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, you might want to reword your question. I'm not sure of your question. The tone of his voice? What he says? Is it verbal abuse? perhaps you should go to www.goodsamerian.org
2006-12-24 01:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is key. im guessing that you dont currently have that so i would seek counseling together, they will show you healthy ways to communicate
2006-12-24 01:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? who he said? what does that mean-- your questions makes no sense-- please clarify and by the way, a child should NEVER keep a marriage together it is not super glue!
2006-12-24 01:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is beacause u dont feel respected and u feel like he is taking charge of you
2006-12-24 01:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋