split custody battle with them and well biting,kicking ect ....
2006-12-23 16:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by in_olathe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find a new g/f..
You should not have to take any abuse...
2006-12-23 16:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have 'any' idea of the torment those kids are going through? Odviously Not!!
Have you ever considered how they might feel when they hear their mother, and whoever, talking about their dad.
Or what about the resentment their must be, in the air around the house.
When there is a custody battle going on, guess who gets the brunt end of all the anger, the bitterness etc.
I am wondering if 'you' show them any respect.
Respect is earned 'or didn't you know that!
Or do you think that because you are an adult, and they are kids,
that they should automatically respect you.
NO THEY SHOULD NOT!! like I said, respect is earned..
Maybe you are approaching 'everything' concerning those kids,
the wrong way, ever consider that!!
Have you tried being their friend, 'really' loving them and letting them see how much you care?
I guarentee if you show them some respect, things will begin to change. Thats if you really care about them..
2006-12-23 17:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriends kids don't respect anyone not even themselves. I would talk to your girlfriend and tell her the problem and if you can't resolve it then you don't need to be in the relationship. It sounds like your girlfriends kids aren't the only ones who show you no respect. unless she has no control over their behavior either.
2006-12-23 17:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your g/f. I am a single mother and I can tell you some awful stories about my girls...They have been downright rude to people...I have to take them in hand...If she is aware of their behavior and still does nothing to help you out...then you should think about leaving the relationship...She is disrespecting you if she is not willing to make her children behave towards you...she is doing them and you a big disservice by ignoring the situation....Good Luck.
2006-12-23 17:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, if their Mother does not make them respect you. Its a loosing battle and you are asking for pain.
2006-12-23 17:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your gf. you have the right to discipline them like you was their father. If you don't set limits they will never respect you. You should see first with your gf how to do that, because it could be a problem even if you love her very much.
2006-12-23 17:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey instead of beating them go to your girlfriend and tell her to talk to her kids about respect and if she say nothing wrong with her kids then tell her well y'all just can't work like that she gone have to stay home and watch them herself cause them not your kids
2006-12-23 16:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your girlfriend about that....she needs to teach them to respect their elders_
2006-12-23 16:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went threw that they dont have no respect because they do not want their mom with you they want their dad there with them that way kids are they do not like you if they dont have no respect you its going to get worst then that beleave me i dont have my kids
2006-12-23 17:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by lilangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She comes with "baggage" either you accept them and have her discipline them or you leave the relationship.
2006-12-23 19:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋