Cancer Female age 31, Capricorn male age 56, good match?

Question

In a serious relationship with a male, he has been married before one, I have never been married. I was wondering if we are compatiable? I know that Capricorn is the opposite sign on the zodiac and capricorn is not a water sign. I wear my feelings on my shoulder and I tend to get talkitive, and he is very very quiet. Age apart-is this relationship headed for disaster?

Answer 1

Only if you declare it a disaster. Take the Sun sign compatibility out of the picture. Take a closer look at what you both have to offer each other. Not a give or take but satisfying the needs that both of you require. Age really does not make a real difference unless neither one of you realize what you bring to the card game. He may try to father you, and protect you, you may want to act childish and he may resent you for it.You just don't know until you honestly cross that path. You both have to step back and be courageous enough to overcome and move forward. One indicator is acknowledging the time when there is conflict, recognize it and say. Whenever there is conflict it means one or the other is growing. Build trust knowing the other can be free from persecution and that there is enough love that both of you have built, that harbors a safe zone to go to.

On the other hand a Water sign and a Earth sign make mud!
Or Water needs Earth to guide itself and Earth needs water to replenish life.

Answer 2

Cancer With Capricorn:

Both are good money managers and are unlikely to have many financial problems. They both are good listeners but tend to not think deeply about what they are listening to though. Waste is an offense to Capricorn as is extravagance, and Cancer can sometimes be wasteful. Capricorn is a faithful and devoted mate, who the more positive type of Cancer can be content with, even if life does get a little boring at times. The elements of water and earth go well together but these are zodiac opposites. You'll have to take the good with the bad and there will be plenty of both. Capricorn lacks the warmth and sentiment that cancer requires. Cancer lacks the drive that turns on the Capricorn.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Cancer and Capricorn can be a great match, BUT, the age difference is pretty extreme. The concerns of a 31-year old are NOT the same as the concerns of a 56-year old.

There may be a strong friendship and some attraction, but I would seriously look at the source of your attraction.

What do you really have to offer him and he you? If you can answer this question truthfully and proceed, then ok, but to ignore the question is a huge mistake. You may just be something pretty to look at who helps him to feel younger again and who he feels will help him out when he is aged. And he may feel he can offer you more security and understanding than a younger man?

I would look into the future. He most likely won't be there for you later and you may spend many years as a young widow, OR even his bed nurse at a younger age than you'd like.

However, most importantly, you must always follow your gut instincts, no matter what I or anybody else says.

And btw, I am a Cancerian female and I adore Capricorn males, so I completely understand the question. :-)

Answer 4

I assume you wanted to know in astrological terms whether or not this is a compatible pair. Cancer and Capricorn together make a rather harmonious pair, each having strong passions, and a strong sense of responsibility and morality, thus playing off each other nicely. Also anytime the two signs are exact opposites on the astrology wheel, it typically is a perfect match (that is what is believed at least). With that said, if the age doesn't bother you, then it's a great pair!

Answer 5

Well AGE, should be the first consideration in this matter. However, since you are an adult, here is what you asked for. However, remember he is from a different generation. That will cause problems for you both, unless you are looking for a daddy and he is looking for someone to protect. But here is the answer that you asked for....

When Cancer and Capricorn make a love match, it's a celestial pairing of great tenacity and determination. Capricorn, the Sea Goat, is focused on logic, on being down-to-earth and real; Cancer brings a charge of emotional intensity to the relationship. Both hold one another to high standards tempered by an abiding mutual respect. In a Capricorn mate, Cancer finds dedication, and in return Capricorn comes to love Cancer's persistence. These two Signs from opposite sides of the Zodiac can come together to create a very successful and secure connection.

This relationship builds and grows from a strong foundation of material and emotional security. Both Signs can be depended on to make frugal, conservative decisions. It doesn't have to be all solemnity, though, as Cancer can help their hard-working Capricorn lover to relax a little at the end of the day, to take time to enjoy the rewards of all that labor. Cancer will also be the one to polish and preserve the fruits of their shared accomplishments; Cancer is the keeper of nostalgia and cherished memories and possessions. Capricorn moves Cancer toward achievement and keeps in check their Crab-like tendencies, enlightening Cancer to the more important matters of the world outside their own easily bruised heart. This relationship succeeds if there is an ironclad commitment and a stable, traditional home environment.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) rules Capricorn. The Moon is a warm, feminine energy, and Saturn a cold, masculine energy. The Moon is emotional and nurturing; it is about maternal care giving and intuition, both of which become vital to Cancer. Saturn practices integrity and discipline to achieve goals. A Cancer love mate can show their serious Capricorn companion how to enjoy life and to appreciate beauty and comfort. Mothering Cancer truly enjoys smoothing over Capricorn's hard edges. Conversely, the Sea Goat can smooth Cancer's ruffled emotional feathers by providing the sort of solid foundation that Cancer desperately craves. Capricorn teaches Cancer to be more disciplined and to go out into the world and strive toward goals.

Cancer is a Water Sign, and Capricorn is an Earth Sign. Earth Signs focus on possessions, Water Signs on emotion and intuition, but also on beauty and nostalgia. The Cancer-Capricorn love mates like to surround themselves with beautiful things -- a stately home, gorgeous artwork, expensive cars. Their desire to be economically stable and their love of finery ensures that this couple will work hard toward this and other shared goals. This mutual love for fine things keeps them out of arguments about one partner trying to live ostentatiously or beyond their means.

Cancer and Capricorn are Cardinal Signs. Both are initiatory, active and ardent. Though this can be a catalyst for some dynamite conflicts, it can provide Capricorn with an emotional pillar, as Cancer is entirely dedicated to the relationship. Their differing emotional dispositions complement each other well -- Capricorn excels in getting the nitty-gritty business done, and Cancer always steps in when emotional counseling is needed. These Signs will get along well if Capricorn and Cancer allow one another to use their respective individual strengths.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Capricorn relationship? Their utter dedication to one another and their mutual commitments toward shared goals. Both are lovers of quality and of beautiful, luxurious things, and neither shirks at the idea of a little hard work if that's what it takes (in fact, Capricorn would rather be working than almost anything!). Their shared passions, sense of responsibility and morality make theirs a highly compatible relationship.

Answer 6

I don't think signs really have to do with anything... just my opinion. My friends come from all signs. (I'm Sagittarius...) I think the talkative/quiet thing can work out well. My grandparents are like that, and they get along very well. But about the age... that's a big difference. You could be at totally different stages in your lives.

Answer 7

ummmmm a cancer female for a capricorn male should be a great match although there are few differences in your relationship.

Answer 8

Every choice has it's pluses and minuses just depends on what you wnat to deal with. I know people that revel in the opposite land and others that can't stand it. Make your decision based on how he makes you feel and how you feel about yourself with him.

Answer 9

anytime a man gets a girl 25 years younger. It is a good match for him

Answer 10

Second time I was 41 he was 19yrs older.Had a great life with him,No worries and no games.Go for it!!