So thier is this girl right and me and her use to be really close friends....i use to see her as my sisiter but then when school started my biggest crush was their with me and so was my friend later on i found out that my friend was going out with my big crush and didn't tell me i didn't get mad or anything but in school she started to stop talkin to me and started hanging around with some other friends of mine i had her introduce too.....after i found out my friend and my big crush started to kiss, hug, hold hands everytime they would see me....so that just got me pissed off...... a while then passed and i heard from a friend that she was sorry she had done that to me and that she regret it but all i said was oh well....do i start talkin to her or just leave as it is?
2006-12-23 15:29:48 · 11 answers · asked by confused_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would leave it to hi and keep it moving --- if you don't have trust you don't have a friendship.......... what happens next time you have a big crush.........
2006-12-23 15:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tajay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes this is your fault for many reasons so stop playing victom to it. One reason is because you never communitcated to anyone that you had any of these feelings. They were all secrets so no one really knew. Another reason is that you cannot control people. You can't control who they are friends with who they can date what they can do. If you dont realize this soon then its very possible you will find yourself hurt and or alone. We all learn these lessons so dont be hard on yourself you are a worthy person.
Comunication is the skill and accepting things for how they are is your answer.
2006-12-23 23:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare urself for the Best answer...
ok....
first off a TRUE friend would never do anything of that nature behind your back
second the fact that she and your crush purposly tried to make u jelous....
she is not a true friend i would move on........
associates come and go ....
Friends are there FOREVER
-phatphil5
2006-12-23 23:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Phillie D Philliums 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave as it is. She obviously had no feeling for you or she wouldnt have been so blatant in showing her affections with him when you were near. Respect plays a big issue her. You have to give respect to get respect. She showed you no respect at all; therefore, you owe her no respect. Move on........the right ones there for you somewhere.
Good Luck,
Mark
2006-12-23 23:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she stopped hanging out with you. So, I think that until she says that she's sorry to your face, then don't talk to her. For all you know that other person could be lieing for her or making things up.
2006-12-23 23:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother. If you talk to her, you're setting yourself up for a big let down. She made the mistake and paid for it. Move on and tell her she should too.
2006-12-23 23:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by lickthisup69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. She doesn't know how to be a true friend.....Don't hold any grudges, but don't give her the chance to hurt you again....
2006-12-23 23:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um i really dnt no bt i can suggeat you to fkin ignore her like she never did maybe that would help
2006-12-23 23:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by chichi3985s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god no...anyone who would hurt you that bad is not worth anything that involves you giving her your attention
2006-12-23 23:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a week and then start to talk to her
2006-12-23 23:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by trojanzombie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋