I want to know where this belief came from because this is just weird to me. I was always taught that the man was in charge and the wife needed to obey.
2006-12-23 14:47:21 · 44 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Probably from feminism !!!
2006-12-23 14:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do not know what religion you practice, or what god you worship, but, I was taught that a partnership of any kind should be based on mutual understanding and agreement.
If you are in a committed relationship, that relationship should be of 50-50 status. That each should put in as much as the other person. Dogs need to obey. Children needs to obey their parents and their teachers and adults.
Married couples should love and respect each other. It is "love, honor and cherish". If you are going to go for that "love, honor and obey", then, you just might have to wait for that from a woman woman willing to "obey" her man.
2006-12-23 14:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Since you were 'taught' this wrong way of thinking for this Century: welcome to the REAL WORLD. It is NOT in the wedding vows anymore for women to 'obey' their husbands. Women are NOT peices of meat, dogs, property, a child, or anything else that 'has to be controlled.' Expecting a woman to obey her husband/man is controlling and that is NOT allowed in this day and age. That is, actually, considered abuse.
I am lucky I got out of a relationship like that (after being with him for 20 long years) and got into one where I am his EQUAL, his PARTNER in everything. We don't control each other; we don't expect one to obey the other; we both pitch in with the housework (he works full-time; I go to school full-time to get a great paying job--yes I do most of the housework since I am home more, but he does help from time to time, especially when I am sick or overwhelmed). We totally respect each other in every way possible. This is how a relationship is supposed to be: 100% from both partners, no control or abuse, total respect both ways. If one expects the other to obey them, then there is NO respect.
So, since you were taught this, then it sounds as if whoever taught you this has/had NO respect for women, period. A 'real man' would have respect for women and wouldn't expect them to obey him. A 'boy' in a 'man's body' expects women to bow down to them, be their slave, and to obey them.
2006-12-23 15:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carl darling the place have you ever BEEN boy??? The "obedience" clause went out of marriage before and lots away...For as some years as i became luckily married, i can't remember a time whilst my guy EVER even remotely utilized such an thought in our relationship...My goodness, i could have been ROTFL. Now don't get me incorrect, I respected him a great deal, depended on him previous perception and we the two especially lots agreed on responsibilities and shared maximum each and every thing. Methinks expensive, you're livin below a rock and function't considered the easy of day for sooooooo long, which you're unaware that circumstances have replaced as properly as THAT ridiculous element of wedding ceremony vows oftentimes. So do your self a desire, "bone up" on present day, present day-day wedding ceremony vows and what oftentimes remains pronounced and what truthfully has long previous via the wayside, won't you? you would be a greater effective guy for it probably Grace
2016-10-28 06:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible does say that the Husband is the head of the household and that the wife should obey. You really need to read more into the Bible though. There is laws the husband has to obey also.
2006-12-23 14:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its all that feminist crap that making women like that. Maybe I'm from the dark ages or something...lol But I like being a stay at home mom, I like that my husband pays all the bills. In return he has a clean house, dinner on the table, children are taken care of , and yes I OBEY him.
2006-12-24 04:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....and where, in THIS day and age, do YOU get the idea from women should obey men??
Don't tell me your parents taught you! (I'll only believe you on this if you can prove to me you're about 80 years old or older)
2006-12-23 14:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Joshua 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Times have changed. This is the time where there is equality between a husband and a wife. Wake up.
2006-12-23 14:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea only if you're married the man is suppose to guide her.We're not maids treat her nice with love and&respect and i'm sure it'll all be worth it.A relashionship suppose to be 50-50 not 90-20.
2006-12-23 14:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I suppose it depends on the couple.
But, as I answered your other similar question, if the man wants to be the boss, instead of a partner, then he needs to get a dog and not be with a woman.
2006-12-23 14:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ha! what a sack of ****! my husband tried to beat that idea into my head,you crazy! even knocekd out a few teeth in the process so u wanna talk about weird why the hell do men think they have to be in charge what the hell is wrong with an equal partnership
2006-12-23 14:50:12 · answer #11 · answered by Wish 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋