My friend has been acting so nasty lately. She recently separated from her husband, she has 3 young kids. She found a couple of chat sites through her cell phone. And is completely addicted. She does nothing else with her time but chat online on her cell phone with men. She has taken 100's of X-rated pics of herself and posted them for these strangers to look at. She totally neglects her children and now her job. She sits at work and chats all day on these sites, having cyber sex right there at work! The thing is, we are not allowed to get online at work, if we do we will get fired. She is the sole support in her household, but she risks her job just to talk dirty with all these men. She totally admits shes addicted. NOW she is talking about meeting up with some of these men she has never met or even spoken to on the phone, for sex! I tried to warn her, but she thinks I am a prude... Any advise????
2006-12-23 14:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by orchidshel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the separation was probably difficult for her and she really needs a friend. maybe if you two spent a little more time together she'd give up her double life as a internet working girl.
2006-12-23 14:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows how you feel. She has hit rock bottom, and only she can do anything about it. You are not a prude as this is just disrespectful what she is doing. She is not taking care of her children, and she is in danger of losing her job over this. To plan on meeting someone that you meet on the internet that you have been doing the verbal nasty with is not safe.
2006-12-23 14:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh heres what you do let your friend see the dangers and im not talking abot the sexual preditor crap because your friend is a big girl and she knows she can get hurt but show her real stuff that happens to real people talk to her openly about how its making you feel uncomfortable and let her know what she is doing is wrong and could affect her kids very seriously also what i wud do is remind her that these men are hiding behind screen and ARE NOT who they say they are 2 out of 3 times also maybe notify your boss to give her a warning that way she doesnt do it at work and she can focus try to get the sites that she does go to blocked so she cant get to them even if she wanted to
2006-12-23 14:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you're no longer the only one yet i comprehend techniques to sense that way on occasion. It kills me that the information covers crap like Jamie-Lynn and Britney and all the different Hollywood BS. that's why i watch BBC information they cover the authentic information without the fluff. Who quite care approximately over paid people who've did no longer advance up, communicate up on issued they have not have been given any awareness of just to make a greenback and don't something for absolutely everyone yet themselves.
2016-10-05 23:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know any of her family members, tell them or get a counselor. If she has turned into an internet hooch over losing a husband when she has 3 kids, it can go into a horrible mess! Sometimes, family can help someone more than friends. I would help her before she is sexually harassed and it goes horribly wrong.
2006-12-24 05:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Green Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can really do anything to stop her. Maybe you can mention one more time about not doing it at work because she wont be able to support her children if she gets caught.
She knows what she is doing is out of control and wrong, but unfortunately, you cant do anything about it. Just stick in there with her.
2006-12-23 15:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you pass my info on to her......just kidding
as to the others answers, never call social services, they are evil government workers.
just try and be her friend, im sure its just a phaze.
2006-12-23 14:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as hard as it is, we can only help those who want to help themselves. im sorry to hear about your friend that's too bad.
2006-12-23 14:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by tuckerj2u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she looses her job and her childrens lives are in danger please call social services for child neglect please keep an eye out for them.
2006-12-23 14:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does this friend of urs look like?
2006-12-23 14:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by sil3ncioso 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋