2006-12-23 14:37:11 · 24 answers · asked by S_M_A_R_T_Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You confused idiot..why did you let go of her in the first place?
2006-12-23 14:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Giselle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you are divorced.Now think about all the crap you went through before the divorce.Remember who wanted the divorce and why.If you still want her back after all this thinking you should talk to a councilor before you make a move toward contacting her.You are probably going through a tough time during the holidays and you want the comfort you had before.Just hang in there and deal with it.It takes time to get over someone.
2006-12-23 23:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, wait that can be bad if you give it too much time. What I really mean to say is to take it slow and just keep in touch with her. Talk to her about what brought you two together in the first place. Ask yourself if you really want her back and what can you do differently once you get her back to avoid having this happen again. While you are taking things slow with her I suggest you try seeing other ladies. You might find someone special who will make you totally forget about your ex. Whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck. Don't get discouraged if she turns you down. Don't love someone who doesn't want to love you back. Move on if she isn't interested because if you do get her back and she is forced back into the relationship she will only leave you again and you will be hurt again. Again, best of luck to you.
2006-12-23 22:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to do that earlier this year, but failed. Noticed in the process that I really didn't want her back. Part of me felt insulted that someone had walked out on me and had sort of a knee jerk reaction in wanting her back. When she came back into my life, I got to truly realize that we are two very different people and don't belong together and we parted for good.
Figure out why do you want her back and if she is the person to meet that need. Figure out why I didn't work in the first time and what can realistically be done to prevent it in the future. Wish you luck.
2006-12-23 22:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Good_Enough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry for the way some people answer you, but listen if you really love her, & you think that the reason for the divorce was some misunderstanding, you can really have her back, (if she didn't marry someone she loves more than you) & for that there is a lot of work to do, first learn how to comunicate with people, that helps alot, you can read (the 5 love langauges), or there is a lot of books teaching people skills, but if you don't or did'nt really love her there is a lot of bad ways to do, but i would'nt sugest to try it because you have big chances to lose much more, but listen if the first one is true i wish you good luck achiving your dream & should god be with you
2006-12-23 23:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by M.J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you divorced to begin with? My mom tried to get back with my horrible dad, and dated him after the divorce, but it defedintly doesn't work out. Did she leave u? I suggest you tryto remain friends but not remarry her.
2006-12-23 23:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by politicaltnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother I've tried when a woman is done its done.Ive hooked up with my ex a few times even had sex a few times leaves me feeling empty.Decided i deserved better than that and i only lost a house i planed and built.also bout $80,000.00 but i still wuda took her back no more cut your losses and move on.
2006-12-23 23:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by P.Bunyun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 13:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Is going to take a miracle so I hope you believe in them. Once a women cuts a man louse that’s it they are OUT!
2006-12-23 22:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're divorced, move on. She probably already has.
2006-12-23 22:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋