2006-12-23 14:35:02 · 10 answers · asked by Vman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Vimal, this happens in your homeland too, especially due to those arranged marriages, in which the woman thinks she doesnt have to have sex with her husband after she produces two kids. After that they begin living as if they were divorced. At least Americans are honest about why they go their separate ways.
2006-12-23 14:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. too youthful 2. thinking marriage will 'restoration' a suffering relationship 3. on occasion marriage is a 'checkpoint' the place as quickly as surpassed, one in all of the two would not could 'attempt' anymore: would not choose for the actual, takes the different with none attention etc. 4. money...particularly if one is a 'spender' and the different is a 'saver' or a minimum of simpler. 5. One area awaiting the different to be a suggestions reader 6. distinctive techniques on raising teenagers 7. no longer with the flexibility to nicely known that the different is authorized have distinctive pastimes, pastimes, techniques, etc 8. One area thinking that when married, the different area may be 'fixed' or 'knowledgeable' 9. One area being so obdurate that they are rigid 10. Unwillingness to forgive 11. faith..distinctive, one has one would not 12. Politics 13. Unwillingness of one area to seek for exterior help i'm specific there are hundreds greater... there's a line from that movie 'conflict video games', as reported via the WOPR: "the only prevailing pass is to no longer play." It replaced into in connection with nuclear conflict, yet i think of it applies to something even worse...marriage. in maximum situations. i understand there are some marriages available that are completely incredible.
2016-10-18 22:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first people in the united states seem to learn a lot of things from the garbage that's on TV.ain't that a shame.. she i sayed ain't.they see others divorcing and think why not ever one else is doing it.they don't take are understand there vows. and how its wrong to divorce unless there are certain circumstances.should be thinking about this before marriage,not afterwords... just remmber know ones perfect besides God.
2006-12-23 15:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by derrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mk_goosen said it all, it is to easy. People are lazy, when it starts getting hard they get divorced, so much easier to shirk their responsibilities. Yes, some should get divorced ex: Abuse of any kind. Drug usage, excessive alcoholism.
They think marriage is so great and all it takes is to love each other, FALSE. Marriage is NOT a bed of roses, it is HARD WORK.
But the other reason it is so high is because of LACK OF COMMITMENT.
2006-12-23 18:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by trollwzrd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same reason there's a walmart on every corner,people pack in to buy things they don't need,can't afford,and will have forgotten about in a week....they're trying to fill that empty void in there soul.Everything in this country has turned to instant gratification if you're not happy then you need to make yourself happy. The news flash is you can't be happy all the time,sometimes you just got to tough it out until things get better.
2006-12-23 14:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by chosen37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't take there vows seriously when they make them . it is easier to get a divorce than to live with someone and stay thro the hard times. people go into marriage blindly thinking it will be wonderful and never have any problems when the problems start its divorce time.
2006-12-23 14:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becasue we don't beleive it is okay to beat the crap out of our partners, because we don't beleive we have to be miserable for our entire lives...Because we have the right to CHOOSE how we live our lives. From the above comments I would have to guess that some in the U S do believe it is okay for their spouses to beat the crap out of them or that it's okay for their spouses to totally control every aspect of life making the entire family miserable. There is more to divorce than "laziness" or "boredom"...but those who've never been through a "bad" marriage don't have a clue
2006-12-23 19:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
people even though 2 people might love eachother, they might nit fully understand marriage, and still have their careers and stuff as priority number 1
2006-12-23 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by woah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people don't respect others here
2006-12-23 14:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here it is in a nutshell. They are to easy to get.
2006-12-23 15:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by mk_goosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋