I was married for ten years to a woman that cheated on me for 8. And the only other relationship I've had was a woman who left me for another man. Everyone tells me I'm a good guy and a nice guy, but noone seems to want me. I'm sober, not abusive, hard working, intelligent, and i try to be a good man.
2006-12-23 14:25:14 · 21 answers · asked by H T 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You can always change destiny. But have people died without a partner? It happens all the time, so not everyone finds 'the one'
2006-12-23 14:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest not giving up, the holidays make people think about such things and the past and how you got where you are today.
A good guy deserves a good woman in their life. Timing is everything, sure you might see your ex moved on and you see this and you think you should has first, it's not going to work in her new relationship.
Your going to find someone and better then whom ever she is with. Sometimes it's hard to beilve it when things happen in life, but you will sometimes you will have bad days, but use this time to find yourself and what you want in life. It's sad what happened to you and you deserve more from life and I hope you find it.
Keep busy join a gym, go places and run into people and meet friends you never know, someone might know someone perfect for you or you can find them.
Don't dispare because it's christmas, happy holidays.
Juleette
2006-12-23 14:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is destined so much as it can be easier. I had bad marriage. He didn't cheat with a woman but with drugs! Sometimes we just made bad choices. I am not out looking. Would rather be alone than go through all the hard times.
2006-12-23 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by mich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it I look like a male model, built like I just walked of a calvin klien shoot, people love to be around me and for the life of me getting a descent girlfriend that is normal is impossible...
So I would say yes some people just attract being on their own but look at the good side no nagging, no one to answer to and Christmas time is cheap Yeee Haaaa
2006-12-23 14:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brain of the Century 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Destiny has a way of doing what is meant to happen, hints the destiny part. But, I don't think anyone is destined to be alone.
I think when we are alone, it just makes us want someone to love even more and hold on to them more so when we have them.
I know that sounds weird, but most of the time, it is true if you think about it. [Sometimes, you get so lonely, you just think you will always be that way and no matter what you do, you won't ever change or find someone that is perfect for you.]
For example, when you first find a mate, don't you just love them to pieces...then sometimes it wears off but other times it doesn't and then you know you really love this person and perhaps they are your destiny.
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2006-12-23 14:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're never alone. You are always there. When we are without a partner we have an opportunity to learn to love ourselves. Maybe it's time to get to know you and realize that you are whole whether you're in an intimate relationship or not .
It always seems that once your comfortable with being alone and not looking for anyone.. Someone steps into your life.
2006-12-23 16:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be available. The extra important question could be that if somebody would not desire to be on my own, can they regulate themselves to charm to that suited individual for them? there's no way we are in a position to know what's destiny & what's our very own creation. All we are in a position to do is what's below our skill. i come across people who can see there's an more advantageous half in existence. despite if or no longer they desire to call it potential or my a recognition would not count. there are lots of people who stay via the rule of doing all they could then while blocked asking this bigger skill to step in & take over to make it happen. They then save on with the education they are getting & oftentimes miracles happen. I also have a customer who theory perhaps she grew to become into basically constantly going to be single. I worked along with her & she met her soul mate & they are residing at the same time now. they are very close & so all that waiting is over now. I coach human beings in this subject so please forgive me if I examine extra into your question than you have been asking.
2016-11-23 14:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone should be alone. You just havn't found the right woman yet. Theres millions of women out there, and Im sure A LOT of them are looking for someone like you, and for a lot of people it takes awhile for them to find their perfect match, so dont give up.
Good luck and Happy Holidays!
~*~Linzi~*~
2006-12-23 14:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Linzi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeez, that really is tough - I feel for you. Don't give up hope. There is always someone who is right for you. Figure out what you want in a person then "advertise". One of the other answers mentioned match.com and I'm sure there are plenty of other sources to look for a companion - even through your local church or other social gatherings.
2006-12-23 14:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by fla_dan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW!!! and how old are you? You sure do sound like a good man. Have you ever thought that it's not you, but the women you seem to choose!
2006-12-23 14:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by scoodlelou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋