i think my guy friend is gay. what can he do to prove that hes not?
2006-12-23 14:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by Bella Stephanie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we joke about it all the time were just trying to figure out how someone can prove it
2006-12-23 14:25:18 · update #1
If he is your friend, really your friend, you will not push the issue and make him prove one way or another. It seems very childish that someone really cares one way or another.
2006-12-23 14:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by jpbofohio 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Young gay men often date girls to 'prove' something. If he's your friend, like him for who he is, gay or not. At least you don't have to worry about him hitting on you when you just want to hang out.
2006-12-23 15:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to "prove himself" at all? I dont understand what you mean here...do you want him to be gay or not? Its something that only he can now for sure so he needs to come to what ever terms he decides.
2006-12-27 06:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove to who?
You?
Not much of a friend are you?
2006-12-23 14:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Horsmn4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know some straight guys act gay so they can get girls? At my school, this happens all the time.
2006-12-25 04:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by null 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a bunch of pretty girl friends over and invite him. and lets see what he does. if hes acting all wild w/ them, then hes not. if hes all bored and that kinda stuff gay men do when theres girls. then he is gay
2006-12-23 14:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by emme 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a hard question, but I would just ask him, and if you really trust him as a friend, I would trust his judgement and go on with it.
2006-12-23 14:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by BloodyCarrion 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing he can prove to anyone unless he gets a girlfriend.
2006-12-23 14:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i wouldnt want you as a friend. grow up. arghhhhhhhhhhhhh.
2006-12-23 15:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to have sex with you. if he says no he is gay.
2006-12-23 16:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by southerndawg777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋