I met her a few times until I realized that she is a compassionate, honest, sincere person. I had to get her attention so I moved and we locked eyes for five minutes.( no joking). This would not be the last time we did this. It was a genuine and I believe mutual feeling of synchronicity. I was in the process of getting a divorce. How can I keep her interest without driving her away. She doesn't know that I am married nor that I almost divorced.
2006-12-23 13:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be honest with her. Tell her your setuation. If she likes you she will wait because it looks like theres something going on between you to it might even be a mutual feeling if you are lucky. Hope this helps sincerely Meg. PS Good luck
2006-12-24 10:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
[1] Get divorced. Completely divorced. Not just mostly divorced. 100% completely divorced.
[2] Spend some time alone getting over the failed marriage. Don't date, just friggin' relax.
[3] Year and a half to 2 years from now, after you've matured and gotten over your divorce from - what was her name again? - contact eye lock lady.
If she's the one and is still interested, the magical "synchronicity" you mention will help it all work out. Otherwise you are some goofball on the rebound who hasn't even signed his divorce papers yet. Scary, man. Scary.
2006-12-23 22:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You better start by being honest with her. A guy going through a divorce brings with him a lot of baggage, sorry. If she is really meant for you, then you won't have to ask her to wait. But, why jump out of the frying pan into the fire....you're just getting divorced.
2006-12-23 22:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out for crying out loud.... she don't need to know everything right away. tell her you are divorced. and depending why you are getting a divorce, keep the new chick discreet.
By the way, based on your past questions, are you a man or a woman???
2006-12-23 21:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most all women have been the woman of some mans dream .
I am sure you felt that way about your wife at one time .
We marry them and then we WAKE UP .
A dream is something we imagine ,the woman is someone who is not going to cater to your every whim .
You get disappointed because she is not what you DREAMED about .
2006-12-23 22:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and if the connection is there she will wait_
2006-12-23 21:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2006-12-23 21:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋