My GF she is having bad mood swings here lately and i was wondering what i could do to get her from getting mad at me at everything i do. I love her very much so please help me and don't give me a bull crap answer!
2006-12-23 13:51:56 · 20 answers · asked by mj142008 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I commend you for taking this seriously and wanting to help her! Since you love her as much as you say you do, try and consider everything that is going on in her life. Is there a lot of stress, is she sick a lot, is it just that time of the month and PMS? There are so many things that could contribute. Don't just assume that it's PMS, although it very well could be. Offer to run a bath for her, rub her back or her feet, let her know that you are there for whatever she needs at that time. If it's something temporary, like PMS or a stressful time she is going through, just love her through it and be patient, if this is just the personality that she has, then you might reconsider this relationship because in the end you will be the one hurt. When women are this moody, don't ever assume anything, let her know that you are there and try and talk with her and chances are she will let you in on what is wrong, even if it is PMS.... or, she may not even know what is wrong, which in that case, she may need to see a doctor and have blood work done or something to see what kind of hormone imbalances are going on in her body, etc. Much luck to you!
2006-12-23 14:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by msjkcjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the sweetest things I've ever heard. If it's from her period you might just have to put up with it for a little while. Some girls get that really bad...it can be very uncomfortable & painful, & no wonder girls get moody when they have to go through that, not to mention that hormones are involved.
If not, maybe she has something on her mind, or she's going through something difficult & taking it out on you without realizing it. She just might need to talk about stuff. I don't know her personally, & everyone's different, but maybe she just needs a little attention & to feel like #1. If you have an open relationship, meaning you can talk about stuff pretty freely, tell her that you were wondering why she doesn't seem as happy lately & you want to cheer her up. You can do something nice & unexpected for her. Maybe she'll realize that she's been a little moody & snap out of it. You seem like a sweet, intelligent guy.... I'm sure you know what she likes. Good Luck!
2006-12-23 14:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have ridiculous mood swings. I don't know why I am this way, but I don't accept the bail out "time of the month" theme. Both sexes have hormones that ebb and change throughout the month, not just girls on their periods. Thyroid, blood sugar, blood pressure, medications, dehydration, all cause mood swings in both sexes. She could have an undiagnosed mental illness, a lot of people do because of the stigma and expense of seeking treatment. She may be insecure and lash out to prove to herself that you will stay even if she treats you badly. Try to find out if she was abandoned or hurt as a child. A divorce or even a bad breakup could start a cycle of behavior that leads her to destroy good relationships to avoid being hurt. "It didn't work for my parents/with my last boyfriend/ with my friends/ why should it work now?" sort of mentality may develop if she's had a bad time of it. Good luck. I hope I can stop being a raging psycho before I find my bf asking this.
2006-12-23 14:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is getting mad at everything you do; then leave. I'm not saying this as bullcrap, but as a serious answer. If you stick around, you'll only let the aguements escalate into something else and even wind up saying something you don't mean, but because you feel attacked you'll say.
I'm not sure what it is you are saying or doing that is p!ssing her off, but maybe some "alone" time will help her re-evaluate her love for you PLUS, it will send a clear message that you will not tolerate her disrespecting you. You let her disrespect you now, she will NEVER, and might I add, NEVER EVER respect you and things will only decline from here on out.
2006-12-23 13:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she on her menstral cycle? Irregardless, go to the store and buy some Camomile Tea, not does it settle you down, & calm u
but is also is good for you. Therefore, you should join her in a cup
and leave the bag in for a full effect. Honey 1 tsp. is nice as well.
Let me know how it turns out.
Lot's o Luck,
diana d
2006-12-23 14:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anny Lanaders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her small gifts that will brighten her day, like chocolate or flowers. Knowing that you got them from the kindness of your heart, not for a special occasion, will make her happier.
Just be yourself. Chances are, it's just a phase that she's going through and it'll be done within a week :)
good luck!
2006-12-23 13:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm yourself. Anger breeds anger. If she is upset and you respond calmly, it takes the "wind out of her sails". Trust me, my husband uses this on me and it works when I'm having my own mood swings!
2006-12-23 13:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when girls are like that or in their period just try to keep ur distance, do bring her some nice things and always stay on her side, if u want stay beside her and treat her well, shell get over it .
after its over shell traet u nice alot!
2006-12-23 13:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by katykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bottle of Zanex
Get yourself a bat and use it to get her attention when she gets that way. Then give her the Zanex
2006-12-23 13:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dumb Dave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋