2006-12-23 13:16:16 · 20 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It is only possible if they love you the way you are and not want to change you! Follow your head not your heart.
2006-12-23 13:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by shookyloo® 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
WOW, great question for pondering......here goes, (in no particular order). Keep your own friends, continue your own hobbies and interests, keep learning, and as you learn share it with him/her. Always speak the truth. Don't compromise your values for anyone, When your partner hurts you, tell them, and tell them why it hurt.....don't let anyone treat you badly.....Know that you don't have to share everything that is on your mind, somethings are best kept private.....don't give too much too fast....Know what you are feeling, question it, analyze it, ponder it, write about it, just know what you are feeling.....communication, communication, communication.....You don't have to do everything together, have your own alone time....only loose yourself to someone you completely trust in all matters...your heart, your head, your health, your safety, your well being, your body, all of you...........respect each other. Be best friends. Don't go to fast, love, true lasting love, takes time.........Know that there are no guarantees in life. Appreciate today and don't worry about tomorrow....Never take each other for granite, and if this starts to happen, bring it up, talk about it.....change it.....Don't ever think you can change someone, or their behavior. People as a rule don't change.....Either love them as they are, or move on.....Know that there is no perfect realtionship, and there is no perfect person....accept each others faults as long as they are not detrimental to you......share your dreams, create dreams together........if you make a mistake, own up to it.....nothing like secrets to destroy trust......Don't spend more than you make. Money breaks up more relationships than infidelity.......Be forgiving, and not vengeful. Make your love the most important thing in your life, not the job, not your family, your love....if both of you do this, it will be strong beyond your dreams....Listen more than you talk.......listen with your ears, your eyes, and your heart...stick out the hard times, the good ones will be around the corner.....help each other grow.....be strong for each other.....
I have learned all this through my journey of life and love....None of it is easy....relationships take a lot of work, but sometimes if you are lucky, they last and are the best gifts of life.....
2006-12-23 21:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trick is losing your heart but keeping your soul. Stay you, don't become them. Keep your likes, friends and activities. Meld somewhere in the middle.
2006-12-23 21:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost impossible. better hope you know where the other person is heading before you lose yourself.
2006-12-23 21:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you never worry about losing yourself. Also you don't worry about losing them. Love is knowing that you can't keep it, you have to share it with everyone.
As for your way...with love you never worry about who you are, or what "your" way is...it just is.
2006-12-23 21:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by ÐIESEŁ ÐUB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give them Power Of Attorney.
2006-12-23 21:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a battle. In the end I always lose..
2006-12-23 21:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose yourself to someone whose direction coincides with yours...
2006-12-24 05:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by falzalnz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How poetic. I'm far from an expert, but I suppose your heart just knows where it's going.
2006-12-23 22:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by hmbn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't lose your head.
2006-12-23 21:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋