Married men, after you've been married for a few years, do you really get tired of being with the same women every night? I hear that a lot, and i was wondering if you agree.
What about the married women? Do you get tired of being with one man?
2006-12-23 13:06:06 · 24 answers · asked by Stark 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not married yet. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we plan to get married. I just get scared sometimes from hearing so many broken marriage stories.
2006-12-23 13:22:54 · update #1
it crosses my mind at times,I wont lie,but my vows were for better,or for worse,in sickness,and in health,for richer,and for poorer and I believe if you cant keep your word then you'll never know what a relationship is about.Ive seen what cheating can do,my father did it and my grandfather did it etc,and the repurcussions it has on everything,besides it takes way too long to retrain someone new(LOL)
2006-12-23 13:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 18 years to my husband and we both sometimes are tired of each other. I think that's normal in a relationship. Over time, people change somewhat and what may have interested a person when they were younger might not hold the same weight as you mature. I think most couples go through this--especially when you spend a good part of your lives raising children. Once the kids are grown and out of the house, you either rediscover what made each other so fascinating in the 1st place....or you don't & then you split up. Everyone likes variety--so spice things up between each other! Remember though, if you like your variety outside of your current relationship, it can come at a great cost--monetary or health-wise.
2006-12-23 21:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by eccrn1996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am more enamoured with my husband now than I was when we first got married. I think all couples get into a comfort zone and maybe get a little bored at times. Communication is key. The longer my husband and I are married the more we can share with each other about what we like and don't like. We can find new things that we both enjoy. I think saying that you get tired of being with the same person is a way of saying " You aren't satisfying my needs". I trully believe if you are satisfying your partner and they are satisfying you, you won't get bored.
2006-12-23 21:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as a female, i would say no. Being with the same person is only boring if you allow it to be. The level of comfort should grow as the years go on. And the hassle of trying to teach someone new everything you have spent years teaching one man is a great big hassle. It is a wonderful thing to be able to just look at someone and they know what you want without saying a word. God bless****
2006-12-23 21:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married longer than probably anyone that will answer this question (26 and a half years) and I have NEVER gotten tired of being with my sweetheart at all. We still date once a week, I still call her a couple of times during the day, I still love spending the entire day with her shopping, going to Disneyland, going to the beach, sitting at home and doing nothing. Physically I have NEVER felt bored with someone that I am so comfortable with and love so deeply. Of course we lived moral lives before our marriage and I have only had ONE sexual partner in my entire life--my wife. So I didn't have to change my moral behavior when I got married like many guys do. They go from a highly immoral life and then attempt to live a moral one and they cannot do it. I guess that is the price for immoral behavior prior to marriage--it makes it much more difficult to live a successfully moral life AFTER marriage.
I met my wife in March and we were engaged the last week of April and married in July. We never lived together, we never engaged in moral mischief, and after 26 and a half years we are still married and still helplessly, hopelessly in love.
Maybe there is a lesson there.
2006-12-23 21:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yes, I agree that men get tired of being with the same woman day in and out. As for women? it DEPENDS.
2006-12-23 21:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only got tired of him because he is a jerk. I'm sure if my husband was a good guy, I would never have tired of him. Imagination is always a good thing too. I did not cheat. Still, I made a bad choice in love. If you make a good choice, you should not get tired of him nor he of you.
2006-12-23 21:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage has different meanings to different people. True love will win out every time. Lust get bored and friends find fault.
Find a way to make the marriage work~
2006-12-23 21:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get tired of having a committed relationship? Tired of not worrying about STD's? Tired of not having a secure future and a tax write off? Tired of a two income family of stability of the children? Tired of making love? Never......................if you are too immature to stay with one person then don't get married.
2006-12-23 21:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by WDS 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
A tough question and the answer is yes and no. No because I love her and we have been married for over 41 years. Yes because sexually there are things I would like to do/try that she isn't interested in, so we have an agreement...if you don't think you'll like the answer then don't ask the question and it goes both ways for us. Not for everyone but it works for us.
2006-12-23 21:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by kent_0101 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋