Me and me gf have been together now for 17months, when we first meet it was amazing we done so much together and enjoyed each others company. about 1yr ago we moved in together and since then it's just gone down hill, All my partner does is worrie about money, this has caused us to argue but now we argue all the time over the littliest thing. i have an anger problem which does not help when we argue, I would never hit her but i have a habbit of hitting walls and doors. its got so bad that she now has deppression and crys alot i try to help but it does not seem to work. we have spoke about it and we dont want to split up we love each other so much but i cant think of any other way to resolve all this. i just want her to be happy again.
2006-12-23 11:20:38 · 6 answers · asked by shyslop15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Communication without anger is the only way. No matter how much you love one another, living together is not easy. Make a list of things that you need to talk about. When my husband and I got together we made a vow of our own that we would never argue or fight over money. We also made a vow that we would never go to bed angry with one another. It doesn't matter if you hit the walls or doors, it's still abuse. It's scary to be with someone who is out of control. You feel as though you can not trust them. Not a good way to make someone feel if you love them. You need to make each other happy. Counseling would help you both a lot if you want to make the relationship work.
2006-12-23 11:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that's when it does go wrong,just because you were great when you were just seeing each other,doesn't mean you can live together.if the situation is that bad,maybe one of you should move out just to give each other some space.It might just be still adjusting to each other-most people say they have a honeymoon period when they first move in together,but in my experience its when you find out things that they do that annoy you or surprise you.Best of luck to you both,hope you sort it out
2006-12-23 19:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even bother! Theres millions of girls out there, go and find a better one.Think of women like you would a car! As soon as they start playing up ...trade it in..you will be better off in the long run.
2006-12-23 19:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a relationship consellor or live apart and c if that helps, i do know a couple that r actually married but just cant live together. good luck
2006-12-23 19:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not ready
2006-12-23 19:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by JACKO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR NOT READY!!!!! LOL XXX
2006-12-23 19:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by channel 15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋