If your husbands goes out on wks. Gets home 3am-6am drunk. He dont answer your phone calls. And when he does you can here famales laughing. And yet he says there are only guys. He talks s**t to you. He uses any excuse to leave the house. (He says he's not cheating) And than he kisses your a*s the next morning or when he has a hang over just so you wont say anything to him. What would you do if this is/was happening to you.
2006-12-23 11:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait for him to get really drunk and ask him a whole bunch of questions....normally drunk people talk the truth....I can tell you this he is cheating on you_
2006-12-23 11:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women let men get away with this sh*t even ONCE?
Dump his sorry a$s! Tell him he wants to live the life of a playboy, he can once you're out of the way. He wants the best of both worlds - you cooking and cleaning and f*cking at home, the other hotties blowing and screwing him at the club.
WAKE UP.
YOU ARE BEING USED.
Don't worry - there are plenty of guys out there who won't treat you like a piece of sh*t to be scraped off their shoe when they leave the house.
2006-12-23 19:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on he is a loser and guys only put themselves in those situations when they are cheaters! You try going out and staying really late until like 6am come in drunk and see what his reaction is give him a taste of his own medicine
2006-12-23 19:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with it another second-- I would leave and if he actually made some sincere attempt to reconcile then there would have to be some mutually agreed upon ground rules to go by. But really, it sounds like goodbye time or he wouldn't be acting this way.
2006-12-23 19:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband did this, I was so bored I started chatting online and found someone who would listen to me and adored me. I begged my husband to stop drinking and go to counseling but he wouldn't. I ended up divorcing my husband and though it was hard to do, it was the right move for me.
2006-12-23 19:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err...well, this means that he's probably around girls of whom you would disapprove. Tell him you want to go with him next time. If he freezes and starts backpedalling, well, you'll know what it means: he knows he's been doing the wrong thing. Call him on it.
2006-12-23 19:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by obligatorycleverusername 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him when he is sober and you are calm. If it continued, I don't see that you have a lot of options except to leave and find someone who respects you. OR--being single is better than a life like you described.
2006-12-23 19:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't put up with it but if you love him and want things to work then you could try issuing him with an ultimatum, tell him he either stops doing this or he'll lose you.
2006-12-23 19:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by sundancer332003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks next time he leaves the house and leave his clothes outside the front door
2006-12-23 19:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should confront him about were he is goin and if u still dont get a straight answer then give him an ultimatum.me or yor mates!
2006-12-23 20:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋