I'm very close to my family - but i hate where we all live...Should I stay or move to a better place???
We live in a very cold state - alot of rain and snow. I only saw a small handful of beautiful days this year (2006) and I long to live some where warm and sunny....BUt I am close with my mom and dad who live here. I am also close with my sister's family and her kids....Also, my one good friend lives here too. But I really do not like living here. I'm not rich - and probably never will be - so flying or driving up here to see them alot once I move is not really realistic... WHat would you do?
2006-12-23 11:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I was in your shoes, I'd move away BUT I would definitely stay in touch with my loved ones. You can always call, e-mail, instant message them every once in awhile. Even if you're not rich, you should be able to see them during the holidays at least.
2006-12-23 11:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try talking to my parents and ask them if they want to move and see how it is. but it can be hard for them since they have been living there for a long time i suppose? so try understanding them when they might not agree. and i agree it is a hard situation since ur close with ur family and u dont want to move and leave them there but also u want to move since the weather where u live now isnt that good. so tell them why tell them that u want to move somewhere where its sunny and warm tell them if they love u they will listen and maybe even agree! anyway good luck
2006-12-23 11:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm the kind off person that likes to be as independent as possible, so; i would move. Anyways, I suggest that you do what you feel must comfortable. Also, how old are? If you are as old as I think, shouldn't you have moved? Besides, life is an adventure. Do not stick to old, but explore the new. I say go for it and move.
2006-12-23 11:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Im nice...not 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the exact same position but I have finally decided to just leave. I'm telling myself that it will only be for about a year and hey if you are that close to your parents you know that you can always come back. It's nice to know that you always have a home to come back to if you find can't stay away. At the same time, it's nice to just get away and find out if you can make it. It'll be a nice new experience for you. Good Luck!
2006-12-23 11:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Venezuela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only got one life to live, if you live it for someone else, then they get both lives. Live your own. Im sure Columbus had friends and family too. My son is in Tashkent, I'm in Tennessee. Our times together are quality. I grew up watching friends get married, stay home, never go anywhere. I struck out, traveled and seen everything i could and did everything i wanted. dont grow old wishing you had.
2006-12-23 11:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll trade you any time you want.
I live in Florida...it was like 90 degrees today. I was going to kill myself.
You can move to wherever you want and visit your family whenever. They wont hate you for it or anything. You need to be happy where you live.
2006-12-23 11:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmm well you should ask them to move but if they don't want to you should move to a better place but not somewhere to far not somewhere to close just like in the middle and always visit them every weekend.
2006-12-23 11:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in the south and own an airplane. Come on down ya'll !!!!
2006-12-23 11:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes to short to do for others, move to where you wanna be and be happy
2006-12-23 11:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do whatever it takes to make you happy...maybe they will move too someday.
2006-12-23 11:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋