He was with her for 5 years and warned me her name may slip but he will try I get that-We love each other and life is great, but if he says her name while he is in bed with me I might get mad and want to hurt him before tossing his naked hinny out the door-any thoughts???
2006-12-23 10:51:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he can't say your real name, you shouldn't be in bed with him.
2006-12-23 10:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.....you're worrying about something that hasn't happened yet, and you're looking for an escape plan, because: 1) you are insecure about his relationship with the ex? 2) You don't really believe he loves you? 3) You think he hasn't gotten over her because he "might" call out her name?
I agree that you should have a plan of action in case he does call out her name, but look at it this way: You are his present and his future, she is his past, and she should stay that way.
If he does call out her name during an intimate moment with you, here is a suggestion: Stop whatever you're doing, and look him in the eye. Allow him to apologize for the slip, forgive him for it, then talk to him. Find out why he did it, then help him to think of something else (you!). Good luck.
2006-12-23 19:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't actually mean he is thinking about her at the time....it could just mean it is just a habitual word for him. I have called my boyfriend by me ex's name and my ex was the furthest thing from my mind. It was just a name slip because I was so used to the name of my significant other. Try to be understanding, I know during such an intimate moment it can kill the mood, but remember it could be something other than him fantasizing about her.
2006-12-23 19:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw his naked hinny out the door before going to bed.
2006-12-23 19:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you that her name might slip out then obviously he was telling you in a cowardl way that she is still on his mind. 5 years is a long time to be with someone, so he might not be ready emotionally to move on. Give yourself a break from him, maybe something else will come along, or you will be there wen hes REALLY ready. good luck
2006-12-23 19:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak. This happened to be once (granted we weren't in bed). I was talking to my girlfriend and accidentially called her by my ex's name. I wasn't because I wasn't over my ex, it was just habit. I felt horrible. She knew that and let it go. Never happened again. If it happens once, laugh it off. More than that, have a talk with him about his real feelings for his ex. If you make a big deal about it the first time all of his energy will be focused on not saying her name instead of enjoying the intimacy he has with you.
2006-12-23 19:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Just Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but if you are in love with him you probably will forgive him. If he is in love with you he wont disrespect you like that what if you did him like that sex is a very emotion moment and its suppose to be between married couple that are creating a bon. Evaluate whats relly going on with your relationship what you let go on will continue be honest tell him don't say anything during sex.Don't settle for less be 1st best
2006-12-23 19:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex with people of the same name so this won't ever happen. I'm Henry the 8th!
If he says HER name during sex, say the name of an ex of yours and make it VERY convincing. Women know how to do that, right?
2006-12-23 20:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by rjrmpk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did say the name miit slip,but he just shouldnt say names if thats the case.I would be mad if the guy I loved sed his ex's name instead of mine during sex & I would probably dump him.
2006-12-23 18:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bang him so hard that he can't forget YOUR name and make him scream your name for you to stop, only long enough to start over and make him scream some more. It also helps to call each other by your names for awhile instead of your pet names
2006-12-23 22:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knee him in the balls and end the sex.
Tell him that's what he gets for using the "J-word" if her name was Jennifer.
Tell him he can try again next week. In the meantime he can practice by jacking off and whispering your name.
What a jerk!
2006-12-23 19:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋