hatred of women?

Question

lately i have found myself very critical of everything women do, the way they act to the way the talk. I disregarded that but lately i have found myself getting very angry at every action that displeases me, today a woman said get your hair cut to me (i have long hair btw) and i nearly hit her! the more i see of them the more i hate them, i dont wish to carry on like this because it is very unlike me, i dont know why this started and im wonering if any of you have gone through similar situations and can tell me how u got out of it


thanks

Answer 1

Did your sister beat you as a child

Answer 2

This is fascinating as I am the same with men. Bar my husband and sons who I love dearly, the actions of men, their speech, their way of thinking and their perceptions of women really annoy me.

It has only come about over the last couple of years and the more I see of of men and their behaviour, the more I value my women friends.

I really object to men looking at my breasts when they should look at my face when they talk to me and I hate the fact that because they are a man they think every woman fancies them.

So yes, I do know how you feel and it's not nice knowing that that these things frustrate you.

The lady that told you to get your hair cut was rude and that was unacceptable. Behaviour like that should just be ignored. That's how I am coping with. I realise that I have to work with men and I am polite and sociable but thankfully I don't have to socialise with them.

I hope you get over this or are able to accept that women will be here for a very long time!

Answer 3

I hope you get help to try to understand why you are feeling so much anger at women. I live close to the Mexican border and hundreds of women have been murdered here.
Usually other men, are the target of hate by men. Just look into the yearly Almanacs, you will see that men are the ones who kill each other by the thousands every year.

It is a fact that men kill each other far more often than they kill women. But those that kill women, are serial killers that have to be st oped before they kill many women.
You have to see a therapist to try to see the irrational nature of your anger. No other person has the power to provok anger in you, if are in control of your emotions.

The fact is, many men become alienated from women and fail to see them as equals, but at the same time, men see each other as a constant threat. Some men see women as mere sex objects. You have to find out what triggers this anger against women, I wonder if you feel that they have some sort of power over you that you resent?
Women pose no real threat to your well being, like other men do, so why the anger?
You need to uncover the truth and not hide from it.
Other men are your worst enrmy, not women. It is fact, you can't deny this fact.
You can change this fact, by seeing women as an equal, not an unknown threat that you are unable to understand. Our society will not admit the fact that men are the ones who are their own worst enemy and that women have had to suffer because they had no say in how they ran their lives, they were the property of men, like their cattle and sheep. Men kill each other like those sheep and cattle, in a never ending war. You have the power to stop this war against women, and against other men.

Stop acussing men of being gay, just because they want the unending war to end.
Jesus wants us to love each other, not abuse each other. Jesus was born 2,000 years ago and became a man to show that love is the way, not murder or hate.

Women wield no power over you, but anger does, it is a sickness. Let it go and join the human race in making this world a better place. I say this to men around the world, violence and anger are the wrong path to follow, Love is the true path to salavation.


It takes courage to love, hate is the easy way out of a situation. Paranoia takes no brain power, but to understand your fellow human being takes time.

Answer 4

Yes. I had a few years as a mysoginist. I came through it though. Maybe part of the problem is that I was brought up to think women represent goodness and men represent badness in society. When I saw that women didn't always live up to the feminist billing I became disillusioned and confused. I then started to get on with women more when I saw that a good deal of feminism is crap and that women are just as flawed as men are. You have to accept them for what they are and not be disapointed that they aren't all what you've been brought up to believe they should be.

Answer 5

If you are seriously having a problem of being unrealistically critical and even have violent leanings toward women, you should seek out psychological help immediately....I'm not being flippant here either.

Is it just women , or do you feel this way toward men too, just to a lesser degree? It could be coming from someplace deep in the subconscious and therefore your "reason" for feeling and behaving this way would be unknown to you.

Regardless, get some help before you get arrested for violent conduct, or worse, hurt someone.

Answer 6

Hatred is something that may affect on your personality so I advice you to avoid it .Try to be a kind and a lovely person , in the same time you should be aware on what is happing aroud of you

Answer 7

Sounds like you are very young. This problem will pass as you grow up and mature.

Answer 8

Maybe the women you've been meeting are just controlling b-tches with personality problems. Try different women. You'll find one.

Answer 9

Maybe some of your latent feelings are surfacing. Before you hit one or keep feeling angry, contact a therapist.

Answer 10

maybe because your single? and no girl likes you? or that most of them are so superficial? im sorta like that too, angry no girl likes me even though im good