that they do NOT want spread all over CHINA...shouldn't they just tell a best friend to keep it private or tell NO ONE AT ALL... because people will talk!!! and yes, they will!!!!
2006-12-23 10:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hard to find anyone to trust these days-i tell no-one nothing i don't want the whole world knowing,play your cards close to your chest,best way then no-one can stab you in the back(how bitter do i sound)!!!
2006-12-23 10:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bit difficult though. Even if someone decides to only tell a best friend, that best friend can easily open their mouths to anyone and if you keep it to yourself it will kill you inside to tell someone, becasue we were bron and meant to communicate with someone. Secrets are big and too hard to keep secrets, the best we can do is get us a friend who doesn't know how to speak, lol, or get a pet or something like a dog.
2006-12-23 10:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by hated.bymany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took a long time, but I finally learned. If someone comes up to me and asks if I can keep a secret.... I tell them NO! And if they want to tell me something about someone.... I tell them that if they tell me, I'll tell the person they are talking about. Funny how this method keeps me out of the gossip loop.... and out of trouble.
Sue
2006-12-23 10:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people tell others things they say they don't want others to know - but actually they do - they want the drama and they like the drama.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-23 10:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at least the ones with half of a brain
2006-12-23 10:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by biker_beeotch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and done that! Therefore, have only one close friend that I will tell anything at all to, and he had to prove himself before I told him too much important stuff. Im sorry for whatever happened to you.
2006-12-23 10:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never trust any1 especially a friend. if next time you want to tell them something deep first tell them something you wouldn't mind them blabbing and tell him/her not to tell any1 and if they do tell then u've had the warning don't tell them whatever you wanted to tell them.
2006-12-23 10:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is my best friend & i can tell him anything ! he*s the greatest !
2006-12-23 10:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it was benjamin franklin who said;
three men may keep a secret----if two of them are dead.
2006-12-23 10:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by agedlioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but people are stupid!!!!
2006-12-23 10:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by sn3w14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋