2006-12-23 10:37:10 · 30 answers · asked by **BeautiFul** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Break up with him.Hes moved on but just doesnt have the balls to tell you.Do not give him the satisfaction of breaking up with you first.Just let it go as best as you can and dont let him know it upsets you that the relationship is over.I can almost gurantee that even if he doesnt want you..he wants you to want him.
2006-12-23 10:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by swanlbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention your age or age bracket but I would put you at maybe your late teens or early twenties ,,,, Guys your age or even guys as old as forty or more just doesn't have what it takes or the maturity to understand what the word commitment means or what it entails ,,,, Sounds like your boyfriend is at that stage now ,,,, It's not your fault nor is there anything you can do about it ,,,, It's just the nature of the beast ,,,, There are some males that can commit and stick to it but they are very few and very far between ,,,,, You just might as well accept it and move on ,,,, Don't be so anxious to tie yourself down to just one person ,,,,, Play the field so to speak ,,,, Young people are being smart if they try to meet as broad a range of people as they can so that when they are ready for a more involved relationship they can make a better choice as to who they want ,,,, The best and most painless thing you can do now is to just end your present relationship as quickly as you can ,,,,,, Good luck
2006-12-23 12:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy! he does not care anymore. you need to move on. don't waste anymore time on him. he has found someone or something better to do. when a man starts acting strange believe me he is most likely cheating. give him up and move on. because you will not be able to really communicate with him due to the way he is treating you. you can snoop and find out, but what good will that be for you. since he's just a boyfriend drop him like yesterday. sorry for the harshness but it's what you need to hear. good luck to you!!!!
2006-12-23 10:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you don't understand why he's acting this way.If he denies,then he's not worth it anyways.He needs to tell you the truth,and although the truth hurts,him not telling you will hurt worse.
I've heard of many situations like this before,and I truly can't understand why people do what your boyfriend is doing.Him not telling you what's going on is obviously making you suffer--not knowing if he doesn't care for you any longer.
Ask him why he doesn't say he loves you and why he's been acting strange.If he keeps doing it afterwards,(I hate to say this) break up with him.He's not worth the anxiety of wondering what's going on inside his head when he can't speak up for himself.You're his girlfriend,not SuperWoman--you can't read his mind.
I hope everything works out just fine.Good luck,hun.
2006-12-23 10:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? Did you ask him? Tiffs are not uncommon in any relationship. If he is a decent person, he should tell you the reason for his changed behavior. Talk to him frankly. Many misunderstandings are caused by small incidents that dont register in our mind until something more serious takes place. Communicaiton is the key.
If he doesn't want to confide in you, then you can bid him goodbye and you are free to look for another b/f.
2006-12-23 10:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in what way is he acting strange??
maybe he see's someone else that he likes, and doesn't want to let u go before he knows if the other is a sure thing.
2006-12-23 10:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by taunasmurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to know the truth then u ask him.Ask him why he doesn't tell u that he loves u anymore?.Ask him if he still loves u? Then the big one is to ask him if he is intrested in someone esle?Only do this if u are prepared for the worse.Good luck hon
2006-12-23 10:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's making an attempt to conceal something that he won't even tell to the lady he loves then attempt to no longer rigidity it out of him, if u shop attempting then he will in basic terms go away you. enable the guy have his secret till he's able to chat approximately it
2016-10-18 22:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he never Loved you in the first place. He was just saying that, to try and be nice. Girl dont fall for that bull ****. Move on, and find someone, who will be there for you!
2006-12-23 10:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jazzmine if i spelt your name right, if my boyfriend stoped saying he loved me and started too act wierd around me i would ask him to sit with me and talk about stuff and figure out what is going on between us and hopfully he would open up too me and tell me everything. Well thats all i have too say and hopfully it works out between you too.
2006-12-23 10:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by kaylee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋