I am pregnant and my parents still don't know! I dont know how they don't know but they haven't noticed anything. I can see that I am getting fatter but not everyone can. Not many people know at school yet. I am a freshman and I don't get too much attention from people and I wear baggier clothes so it doesn't show but a few people have noticed like one of my teacher and she took me to a councelor and I don't know wat to do! should I tell my parents? my boyfriend is my only (friend) that knows. He is very supportive surprisingly. He's 17 and I'm 15. We really are nervous! HELP!?!?!?!?
2006-12-23 10:33:45 · 30 answers · asked by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well am so sorry I think you should tell your parents its better to tell them before they learn of it themself.and go get checked at the doctor so when you have the baby it will be beautiful like you and healthy. Don't be too hard on yourself you made a mistake but don't let in keep you down the mistakes you make makes you stronger. everything is going to be alright if you need to cry let it out(I want to cry just reading your question and I don't know why). I wish the best for you and don't let this little thing break you. You life is not over a part is just taken away. I wish well for the baby and grows up to be a great person and you finish school and go to college and become something great and am sure your parents will help you with the baby.
Love Goody
2006-12-23 11:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by goody2shoe 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are getting prenatal care. When your 15 you sometimes need extra help in preventing anything bad happeneing to the baby. You are automatically concidered a high risk pregnancy because of your age. I'm going to say I'm proud of you for not telling your parents yet. Most parents would have made you have an abortion at 15, you don't have to worry about that now cause your too far along. That right there is a Christmas present all it's own. But you do need to tell your parents soon. Now Christmas is a very stressful time, so I would suggest waiting until after Christmas day. But as soon as you can after that. As a respect thing your boyfriend should be there if you feel it's right. Your parents probably know. They just either don't want to believe it or they want you to trut them and be honest. I'm 18 and been on my own for over a year now and my mom knew I was pregnant before I even told her. Good Luck hunny! Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 18:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not going to nag you about your age, you obviously will get enough slamming for that here, and I'm sure you know you did the wrong thing by having unprotected sex. Whats done is done and you cannot turn back time.
Well you know of course that you wont be able to hide it for much longer, and in a few short months you will be having this baby.
I suggest strongly that if you haven't already you go see a doctor and get a full check up. That is the up most importance above anything else.
Then you have to tell your parents, they will find out soon anyway and I'm sure it will be better coming from you than either gossip or visiting you in the labour ward.
Your boy friend is supportive so make him go with you for support.
I think you will find once the initial shock is over with from your mum that she will come around to the idea. She will only want whats best for you and baby.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 18:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,You Need To Tell Your Mom And Dad. A Girl I Know is 15 And She is Pregnant The Father is 15 Too. Well They Were Scared Just Like You But Once They Told No Body Was That Mad. They All Help Out And Still Do Love Her. So Sweetie They Need To Know Soon. So Dont Be Scared.
2006-12-23 22:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing i would tell you is you should tell your parents what is going on and have a plan with your boyfriend on how your going to raise the baby if you are keeping it. make sure you let your parents know that you have thought about the ways you can raise it an all. i would like maybe have both family's together and tell them together what happened don't be all happy an all because at first they are probably going to be mad an all, but if your close to your mom she might be willing to help you raise the child . a way you could do it is have your counselor have both of you and your family's in for a meeting and settle the matter their. hey an i hope you are seeing a doctor even if its at a clinic because the doctor can tell you what you should be doing right now like the pills you should be taking to help the baby and stuff. so best of luck and see a doctor as soon as possible if your not already.
2006-12-23 18:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by angeldancer68 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Calm down first. I'm sorry to say it's probably too late for an abortion, but there are other options if you don't wish to raise this baby. Hun, you really need to tell you're parents. If you understood that you were mature enough to be having sex, then you are mature enough to face the consequences of your actions. You need to come to terms and decide what's going to happen with this child growing inside you. Just as you've had a life, this child is going to have a life too and he/she has the RIGHT to good life. It's up to you to decide whether he/she will have a good one or a bad one. Things will be very rough for you now and they will only get harder. Giving birth is like crapping out a coconut, that is, if you even make it to full term because pregnancies can have many complications. Please go to Planned Parenting and have them provide pre-natal care for you. You're already putting your life at risk, don't let the same thing happen to the child.
Please, go visit Planned Parenting AT LEAST.
2006-12-23 18:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Alula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, five months is about as far as you can get along before you REALLY start showing, and it's going to be happening any minute, so you'd just as well grit your teeth and tell the parents. After all you are going to need their help and they aren't going to be too thrilled that you left it this long. Don't make things worse by waiting any longer
Your boyfriend is only 17. He isn't going to be able to do ANYTHING to help you, so his parents are going to have to get invoved too. So better just take a deep breath, and get this thing out into the open. Very likely, as soon as your parents get over the shock, they'll get busy deciding what all of you are going to do for the best. Young lady, you need to start getting some medical care right away, before you do yourself and that baby some damage.
2006-12-23 18:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by sharmel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be brave and tell your parents i knwo that may be hard but beilieve me it will be harder on them and you the longer you wait.i know what your going through i am 17 and have a 8 month old son i was 16 when i got pregnant.but stay in school the worst thing you could do is quit.either way you need 2 tell soon 4 ur babys sake you really needa get 2 a doc and make sure eveything is and stays alright good luck to you
p.s a good way 23 tell is have them take u 2 the doc cuz"u aint feeling well"then the doc ends up tellin lol its kinda a easy way outta tellin but it works
2006-12-23 18:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by foxychick142003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wonderful that your boyfriend is supportive!! Your parents are going to know soon enough, whether you tell them or not. Nobody knows your relationship with your parents better than you do, follow you gut.
Best wishes to you and baby.
Prenatal care is very important, if you haven't started prenatal care, this is the best time to start.
2006-12-23 18:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by mikuey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wonderful he's supportive but Im hoping your seeing a doctor. Its extemely important to get prenatal care for your baby. You must tell your parents. Let them help you. I know your nervouse but If you keep baby's best interest in mind youll be just fine. I had a friend she was pregnant at 15 and another current friend who had a baby at 17. She's doing fine.
Go to babycenter.com,go to the boards and they should have one for pregnant teens.
2006-12-23 18:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋