Hello every one i need help!How or what do i look for, if i think my husband is cheating?

Answer 1

Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse
1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
8) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

Answer 2

Changes in a routine that he once had! If he used to come home and just sit on the couch, and now he comes home and takes a shower.....
Changes in attitude! Is he really defensive about stuff, and when you ask him a question, does he answer with a question?
Excuses....he starts making up excuses why he was late, didnt call, left early, etc... Too many details for a story means he is lieing...
Watch for eye contact.
Cheating gets easier everytime it is done, it is only the first time he does it that guilt will hit him! When he knows he can get away with it, he will keep doing it...do some digging and see what you come up with...
Watch phone bills....you can call the phone company and get a bill that details each call, the time it was made, and how long the call lasted....

Answer 3

first of all, you should "feel it in your gut". You should look for things like him hiding his cell phone or keeping it on silent, coming home late and making up excuses, picking a fight so he can go out. Not answering his phone when you call and returning your call hours later. Just keep an eye on him and tell him how you feel, if he gets mad, then he may be cheating but if he's being faithful, he'll help you get over it. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Working late, no extra money. Drastic change in attitude toward you and his appearance. More than usual calls, all private to you. Turning his cell phone off or on vibrate when he's home. Getting angry with you for no reason which means he has to "take a ride" to cool off. If you ask him, he blows up at you. Decrease in your sex life and his interest in you. Looking most times doesn't help, if he's cheating proof will fall into your lap when you least expect it. It happened to me ONCE and that's all it took for me know lots and loooots of signs. My ex did it all, not just a few of them. Staying out late and heading straight for the shower. going places that you can't go to.
If you think he is cheating just try and keep an eye out without him knowing you are thinking it. he will get comfortable and sloppy with it and eventually slip up. I hope he is not cheating, it's a miserable thing to happen. If you ask him, ask him once keep watch on his face and eyes, if he says no. Don't push, he will only shut down and use that as an excuse to go see someone who isn't "challenging" him. Just watch, that's my advice.

Answer 5

Don't stress yourself out by looking Pray and God will show you what you need in the mean time just do and be what God told to to be is a good wife that trust her husband. Do unto others your husbands as you would want others your husband to do unto you. Long as he is not physcially abusing you and treating you wrong you may gain his attention back by your action men hate suspious women. I know how you feel but we need to do the right thing keep busy with projects ,work,positive friends and family. God bless you

Answer 6

Don't confront him!!!

People who are cheaters will lie all the way to their own graves to pretend nothing is happening and YOU are the crazy one. I know a girl who had a private investigator get video, audio, and pictures of her husband doing it with some girl in their car (he was "working late"). 10 years later the crazy bastard still insists it was a mistake and he didn't do anything.

Moral of the story: There will never be some moment of epiphany and honesty from these people, because they don't care...it's just a game to them.

GET A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR AND GET PROOF

GET A LAWYER AND PLAN YOUR FUTURE WITHOUT THE ***


OR, IF IT SO HAPPENS THAT YOU ARE WRONG, AND THE P.I. DOESN'T TURN UP ANTHING...YOU'LL LOVE THE GUY EVEN MORE. JUST KEEP IT TO YOURSELF...

Answer 7

My partner cheated on me and the signs he showed were,our sex life went downhill,he bought new clothes often,he stayed out longer then normal,he hid his phone,he started accusing me of cheating,he went so called camping and fishing on his own,he went to the movies supposedly alone,if i accused him of cheating he would say well im leaving (cause he had a back up plan.
My advice to you is to always trust your gut instinct.Women are rarely wrong.

Answer 8

you should start by looking at yourself and asking the woman in the mirror, "why would he want another woman?" without knowing you or your husband your question is difficult to answer. you need to ask yourself another question. do you want to stay married to this man? is the answer is no why look for signs? leave and get with someone that will make you happy. if the answer is yes, stop looking for signs of infidelity and start looking for ways to excite your husband again. start by always looking your best when he is around. treat him like he is the worlds greatest lover and he will become the lover you need. find way to compliment him on whatever. in other words act like you are trying to get him to fall in love with you and he will. if you want to save your marriage, fall in love with your husband again,.

Answer 9

Well........changes in behaviour, spending, hours, mysterious phone calls that he wont take with u in the room, ummmm lets see perfume, lipstick on his colar.
Basically if you have to ask the question then u have seen or felt the things and changes u need to look for.

Good luck.

Answer 10

I'd have to defer my answer to YoMomma. She covered it all.

Good luck, if you find he has cheated on you dump the jerk and get a new hubby.