2006-12-23 09:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by Kristian C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
looks
2006-12-23 09:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose pheremones attract people too. Like-the way someone smells. I don't know how to explain pheremones too well. It's more primal I think though whereas I like to enjoy someone after the lust has worn off-where the smarts and humor and attitude start to move into play.
2006-12-23 15:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read something once that the author gave a brief explaination about her theory on why we have crushes and like other people. If I can remember it and summarize it for you:
We are attracted to people that subconsciously we want to be. The person personify the image of ourselves that we have in our mind. It's who we want to be secretly, it's who we strive to be. That's why we are attracted to other people. It's our own way to striving to resolve our own internal conflict.
I think it was in a Margaret Cho book...of course she puts it more eloquently than I can....
2006-12-23 17:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always used to think that it was firstly physical appearance, but now I am totally attracted to a sexy personality. A witty, strong, ambitious, compassionate person turns me on far more than a fit body...
If I am attracted to someones physical appearance, it is just lust - but that a strong attraction too right!? ;)
2006-12-23 11:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. We remind them of someone from their past who they liked or loved.
2. We have something in common with each other.
3. We have something different from one another and that difference complements each other.
4. We have physical attributes that they find appealing.
5. Our personalities.
6. Our sense of humor.
7. We have similar recreational interests.
8. Our demeanor.
2006-12-23 18:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pheromones
2006-12-23 09:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was attracted by my opposite. i am very proper, and well , hubby is the 'bad boy' image.
He takes chances and lives on the edge, i don't.
He has helped me open up and live more in the day.
He is my soulmate and bestfriend.
2006-12-23 10:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is this intangible thing called chemistry. It is nothing that you can put a finger on, but you know that is there if it is present at all.
2006-12-23 09:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously 1st will b then looks the maybee after personality.
2006-12-23 09:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Esther S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality
2006-12-23 10:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by J_B_BaLlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality
2006-12-23 09:21:40 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋