I have been trying to get pregnant for the past year and a half?

Question

I have never been pregnant or on birth control. I have always had verybad menstral cycles. Horrable cramps, back pains, cant walk and vomiting. But doctors all tell me this is norm I dont agree. I finally missed my period but i a waiting a few days to confirm. I a 21 and married but unsure if i can bare kids is there anyone who can relate or know anyone who might have went through a certain curcumstance any advice is greatly appreciate please comment

Answer 1

Are you by chance very thin? You may look very nice and are very comfortable and very healthy at your current weight but may be a little too thin to have kids. This probably sounds funny but I have had several friends that have spent bunches of money at the fertility clinics and still with no good results. They put on about 10-20 pounds and suddenly kids are popping up everywhere.

Just a suggestion... Good luck!

Answer 2

Well If you are late you should test. ( I know that is hard to say because you want it to be positive and are afraid that it will come back negative). If it comes up positive you have answered one of your questions already. Have you been checked for endometriosis. It can cause that symptoms that you are speaking of. If you have been trying for a year and a half, that has been more than enough time and with those symptoms I would see your doctor, if you are still getting the "that's normal "answer see someone else. If you have only seen male Dr's try a female. I find that they are sometimes a little more willing to listen and research. Bad periods can be normal for some people but if they are that bad and you know your body, there may be a cause. Good luck

Answer 3

i had cramps so bad that I would pass out, and be completely useless for the first 3 or so days of my 7-10 day period. The pain is so incredibly horrible, not pain killer gets rid of it, only makes it tolerable.

I've gotten pregnant twice in three years. Currently pregnant with my first child right now. Miscarried the other because of stress.

If your doctor is telling you that its normal, than it is. Every woman in my family has horrific heavy, painful periods. And all of us can get pregnant. The pain and severeity of the periods was usually lessened after havign kids.

My friend used to get periods so bad that she would throw up, and not be able to move out of bed for 5 days. She's got 5 kids, all under 7.

A year and a half is a long time to not be getting pregnant, but it depends on how seriously youre trying to get pregnant.

We just passively didnt use protection, and it took me 1 1/2 years to get pregnant. Once we really actively started trying it took me one cycle.

If you're not pregnant this time, consult a fertility specialist, just to make sure youre functional and he's not firing blanks.

The weight suggestion above is an EXCELLENT suggestion. If you're as slim as most girls these days, putting on a simple 10 pounds can make you a bunny rabbit in the baby department. Your body refuses to carry babies to term if its too thin to think it can survive it.

Answer 4

I am 22 and married also. Ive never been on birth control ether. We have been trying for 3 years and in all that time I had 1 pregnancy that i lost very early on. That was in June. We are still trying and my period is Finlay late. I'm hoping! What I'm trying to say is time is the only thing that will tell is time. GOOD LUCK! I hope this was some help.

Answer 5

My suggestion is to get married first. With God's blessing on that, you would be able to without notice discover it much less puzzling to get pregnant. If no longer; Get his fertility checked. Is he obese? A smoker? savour his mountain dew? All of that's substantial fertility killers. If no longer --- the two one in each of you may take supplementations to determine your supplementations and mineral counts are healthful (shrink the possibilities of miscarriage once you do get pregnant). consume healthful, get healthful via strolling, decrease decrease back on soda, alcohol, tobacco, any drugs, and espresso. you would be shocked how lots caffeine is a fertility killer alongside with entertainment stuff. For my husband and that i, while he started exercising and that i gave up the soda, it somewhat is been clicking. additionally, have intercourse another DAY. no longer prevalent, it's going to weaken the lads. no greater desirable than each 2 days, that'll kill his boys too. Use o.ok., and once you're close to to ovulation do no longer provide him a ******** till now intercourse, by using fact saliva is a sperm killer. however do however you could to make him savour intercourse greater (besides as for you!) by using fact it somewhat is getting acknowledged interior the scientific community that sexual arousal complements possibilities of having pregnant. good luck.

Answer 6

Keep riding the pole!