my friend seems really sad and is acting strangly lately. ive tried to talk to her but she insists shes fine. but then the other day i heard her crying in the bathroom at school. she didnt know i heard her, but i told her i did. she brushed me off and now she wont talk to me. shes my best friend in the world. we have been since 1st grade. we've always told each other everything. does anyone know what i should do??
2006-12-23 09:00:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's lucky to have a friend like you! Give her time. Let her know that whatever it is, it will go no further than you!!! Tell her you love her and are worried about her. Tell her you are always there if she needs to talk.
2006-12-23 09:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write her a note that says "I feel there is something wrong. I hope there isn't, but if you ever want to talk to me about it, I am ready to listen and will not judge you no matter what it is. I won't pressure you about this so if you don't want to talk, that's fine too. I just want you to know that I love you and am here for you always."
Then I'd drop it...perhaps it's something that is embarassing to her or too hard for her to talk about. I had this very thing happen in high school. My friend has been raped by her uncle. She told me about two years after it happened...that's how long it took her. Just be her friend and that's enough until she's ready to talk.
2006-12-23 17:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by glitterkittyy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
⥠It sounds like your friend is going through a hard time. All you can do is comfort her and give her space and time. That really sucks that she was crying. Hopefully things will get better and you guys can continue your friendship. Good luck!
2006-12-23 17:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that u will always be there for her, remind her you have since you were 2 were young, then give her space, but if she starts really acting strange, maybe talk to a school counselor, at my highschool they had peer-couselors that are unamnious. maybe that route would work for you...
2006-12-23 17:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by ms.staceyann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter expressing your worries and let her know you are going to give her space but support her and there for anytime she needs to talk.
2006-12-23 17:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much your friendship means to you. And give her some space for a little time but don't brush her off if she did, that would be a mistake that i did and it doesn't work.
2006-12-23 17:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Clint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be and make some new friends. You cant force her to be your friend. All you can do is let her know that you are there for her and you will always be her friend no matter what. Let it go at that.
2006-12-23 17:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that i would keep trying to talk to her.let her know that what ever is bothering her, if she talks to you about it maybe you can help her through it. maybe she is afraid that she will lose you as a friend if she tells you.or she might even be afraid that you will tell some one that she does not want to know. what ever it is you need to assure her you will not tell anyone.but i would keep trying.maybe just go to her house and see if she will talk.
2006-12-23 17:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write a letter saying you know something is wrong, and that you will be there no matter what. And say you will be there when she is ready to talk to you.
goodluck
2006-12-23 17:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_g_grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to open up to you... when some people are down they want some time alone... but when you feel the time is right talk to her...
2006-12-23 17:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋