How do you not stress about money?

Question

When me and my husband go out on dates I worry about how we don't have money to be out and then I don't enjoy myself. HELP! Thank you so much.

Answer 1

You simply have to focus on what's important and that is being out with the husband. If you let finances occupy your mind on things as simple as dates, imagine what it will do if you make this a focus in your life. Talk to your husband and express how you feel. He can help you the most with this issue.

Answer 2

Honest and simple, you are living beyond your means and you have to make steps to get to where you want to be. If you can't afford dates, your relationship should be able to survive having to stay in or as suggested, going to a friend's house or something along the lines of not spending so much. For what you spend on going out on dates, you can use half of it to enjoy twice as much by staying in (fixing dinner together and watching a few videos), or making a dish to take to a friend's house. If you are stressing now, just think about how much more you are going to stress when your money situation gets worse because of the money you are spending now. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you aren't allowed to have fun, but don't have fun at the expense of your future (ruining your credit due to high debt). There are things such as purchasing a home, car, and/or having kids, that are far more important than a few dates, no? Save your money for the bigger, finer, better things in life. Make a plan to get out of debt so you won't have to stress. Did you know that the #1 problem of married couples in America is financial duress (aka debt)? Think of it this way, if you know you are going to not enjoy yourself because of worrying about the money situation, think ahead and avoid the worry and do something that will not worry you so you can enjoy it. Sounds like you and your husband have some planning to do. Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't go out or plan dates until you have paid your bills. You know how much money you are bringing in. Total out a list of your bills. Subtract that amount from your income. If you don't have enough to hang out during that pay period then plan things that don't cost much - staying home and watching a movie - take a friend up on an invite etc.

Answer 4

Pay CASH for everything. As far as dates go, how about FREE? Like going for a hike, a picnic, a sunset walk, a park, a bike ride, DANCING. Live simply; retire early! Truly, the best things in life are free.

Answer 5

Don't spend your money too much on dates and dining out. Cooking in the house and dress up having dinner in the house is more enjoyable, to me it is.

Answer 6

I understand,I do the same thing.I still have a good time,but I just don't go overboard and you shouldn't either.Treat your outings like a bill.Set money aside just for outings.Happy Holidays!

Answer 7

try something different and cook at home and watch movies there. not everyone can afford to eat out all the time. youre not alone. you should designate certain days when you decide to eat out, that way you know you'll need to save some money for it.

Answer 8

wen u go out on s date make sure that ahead of time u set out a little extra $ every week then by the end of the mounth u shoul not have 2 worr enjoy ur self girl......& MERRY CRISTMAS

Answer 9

I agree with the person above, don't go out until you can afford to. It is important to learn to prioritize your spending.

Answer 10

well stop thinking about that think about a happy place and all the pressure goes away oh and did u know stressted spelt backwords is desserts