We are separated and I got pregnant on honeymoon night and he does provide or see his baby girl and it has been a year and he still has not worked on getting a divorce from his previous marriage.
2006-12-23 08:18:10 · 19 answers · asked by Bugs Bunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Although this situation is shocking, God is not surprised. He has not forgotten you and He knows exactly what is best.
It is a good time to develop your communication with the One who designed you and will use this situation for your eventual good.
Do not despair. You and your baby will not starve and you both can actually thrive once you come around to forgiving this very confused and hurtful man. This does not mean you should stay with him.
Be kind and caring however, be wise. This man you married has deceived you, your child, and another innocent person, his other wife! This kind of deception is dangerous.
I also would highly recommend a good counselor. I suspect as you look back, there may have been warnings signs you missed that were recognized by others.
It is said that hind sight is 20/20. This is truly a tough break but you do not have to be a victim in it. You have been given your daughter, a blessing indeed.
Nothing can stop you from being a dynamic, warm, beautiful, intelligent over-comer. God Bless you...
2006-12-23 09:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by NewEnglandLife Mapping 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As he was already married at the time he remarried you your marriage to him is not valid. You are an unwed mother in the eye of the law. But the child born to you is a legitimate child of your husband. The father is bound to support the child until the age of 18. The child (even if she is a girl) also has equal legal rights over his property or wealth along with the children of his first wife. You should consult an advocate and see that you get child support. By any chance you reside in India and that too in Hyderabad I can help you. My cell no. is 9849713810.
2006-12-23 16:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your joking, right???? Well I don't think your marriage is legitimate. You may want to contact a lawyer and see what your options are. It may save you time and money. How did you get married without your husband providing the divorce decree??
2006-12-23 16:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your legally married..i think if the district attorney finds out he will be going to jail.He better fix the situation ASAP before wife 1 gets pissed and puts him in jail.
2006-12-24 00:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not married to him,because he was already married.Call a lawyer,you have a case! Good luck&Happy Holidays!
2006-12-23 16:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by fnocentelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that your marriage wasn't real, and you are one of many singles moms. Don't trip, you'll get the hang of it. If he ain't tryin to get a divorce, leave his sorry a_s alone.
2006-12-23 16:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Baybee Gurrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a lawyer.
2006-12-23 16:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the state, i believe that is biamy....go talk to a lawyer NOW and see what needs to be done.
2006-12-23 16:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by living_dead_sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is called bigamy and is against the law...hire a good lawyer honey...get your marriage annuled ....get his wages garnished for child support....good luck
2006-12-23 16:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him he's a jerk for not telling you and making marriage unsacred for you
2006-12-23 16:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋