I am an overweight girl in highschool. There is this kid who constantly makes fun of me because of my weight. He trips me when I walk, he calls me names, and the teachers wont do anything. I paid 3 of the biggest football players to beat him up, but he beat all of them in the fight instead. Now he makes fun of me 3 times as hard as he did before. What can I do????
2006-12-23 08:08:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm the same way to....but if you keep trying to stop them they are going to keep picking on you....try this for once act like they are not there....and just go on with your day....i hope you try this...it worked for me or you can always pray to Jesus and tell him everything....ask him to help you he will.....
2006-12-23 08:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, they are total morons if they need to make fun of someone for something so trivial. If it bothers you, try playing into it, or even making fun of yourself, i know it sounds sick, but if they see that it does not bother you they will stop. I grew up with kids making fun of me because i was overweight, but i just laughed with them, and even made a few jokes, and they just kinda stopped and left me alone because they saw i was having fun at thier expense. Kids are cruel now adays, you just need to hang in there. Words can't hurt you, and if it gets too bad you can always go talk to a school counselor, they are there to help you. I wish you the best of luck.
2016-05-23 02:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very unfair at times and this is one of those times. I really feel for you but you must be strong and ignore this nasty kid. There will always be school yard bullies unfortunately !! Why won't the teachers do anything about it ?? That's unfair. I would speak to the principal and see what he can do. Although the best thing to do is to ignore him. Once he realizes that he is not bothering you anymore it will spoil his fun and he should leave you alone. Cheer up, it's xmas holidays now and hopefully things will be a lot better for you next year. Merry Xmas to you.
2006-12-23 08:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already put matters on your own hands by, getting some guys to fight him.
Start working on your weight by taking all breads off your diet, like pizza, the buns for hamburger, noodles, and etc, eat more proteing, more vegetties, and walk more and exercise.
Wear clothes are designed for bigger figures, that contours your figure, don't wear the style of clothes that everyone is wearing, especially the small skinny size for the smaller girls, but wear something that will enhance your figure.
Go to Lane Bryant and get you a couple outfits that will help you, or you can check out other stores kmart walmart, and target for clothes, stay away from the flowers, and go with dark colors, and stripes goes downard not crossways.
Do your hair, makeup and feel good about yourself, then when you see the guys are checking you out, and this other guy will see it too, and would be jealous of you talking to other guys.
This guy, who is tripping you, is trying to get your attention, and calling you names, same thing, he is trying to get your attention.
Use very postive things to say to him, nothing mean or hateful.
Kindness kills the bulliness out of people. Be super sweet to him, and he may just leave you alone, or he may be interested in you.
Blow him kisses when you walk by him, in front of people, wink at him, and flirt with him, he would be ambarrassed or may like it, but his behavior may change tremdously, by all of your flirtations you throw at him.
Call him babycheeks, or something sexy intimitate and he might get mad, then again he might not.
You have you either ignore him, or kill him wih kindness and sweetness of your personality.
Best of Luck
2006-12-23 08:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is harassment-you need to get the principal; your parents and anyone else you you think will help you, solve this. You have tired taking matters into your hands and it didn't work, so now you can either find things to tees this kid about'grades, cuz he might be stupid; or have a lisp-idk find something wrong with him, obviously there already is something wrong with this douche bad-he needs help-mentally, he is insecure and is taking out on someone who isn't. Dum fcuk. Get help from the higher ups; or this time, get someone his own size plus more football players to beat his as s-heehee, that will show him.
2006-12-23 08:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he actually trips you when you walk and you've reported it to the school and they won't do anything to protect you, they are violating the law. I would have a parent write them a letter stating that you have repeatedly asked for protection from escalating violence and they have failed to provide that protection. Let them know that you are considering taking legal action against the school for keeping you in this dangerous environment. You can also call the police and let them know you are being hurt at school. They are required by law to act.
2006-12-23 08:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have problems if you're trying to get a guy to stop being mean by having football players beat him up. Stop caring. Show him that you don't care, I'm not saying ignore him, but find some good non-putdown comebacks.
2006-12-23 08:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by lightsandaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably makes fun of you because he is a loser, he knows he is a loser and has to pick on someone more vulnerable to make himself feel better. Ignore him PLEASE. And I wouldn't make it public that I hired bigger guys to beat him up. Nothing is ever acheived by violence and if an adult or teacher found out, you could get in big trouble. Believe in yourself and let the loser go on with his hateful nonsense.
2006-12-23 08:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Charles & Elizabeth C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough situation dear..
and u tried to get him physically hurt as well and he knows u were behind it..so he is makin more fun of u as u dont have any means to control him..
the best thing in this situation -
Completely ignore him
Try to study hard and get good grades and i am sure guys like him never get good grades and he will come to u some day and apologize...
If possible..be friends with one of his friends who u think is a nicer version and take him/her into confidence and share ur feelings one day.. may be that friend can talk to him and things might be better..
**DO NOT GET IRRITATED WHEN HE TEASES U as it WILL PROVOKE HIM TO DO MORE..
2006-12-23 08:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that all you can do is just try to ignore it when you can't. I don't think there is any good advice on here. I apologize. But you should try calling the Kids Help Phone.
2006-12-23 08:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gary D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ignorant...you are better than that and you are letting him control your life by allowing him to rattle your cage.
I was overweight in high school. People can be hateful...but dont do what you did again with the paying people to do things.....You are better than that.
You are better than that and deserve better. What comes around goes around......he will one day get his.
2006-12-23 08:12:29 · answer #11 · answered by mouse4211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋