is it safe???

Question

is it safe to have sex with a total stranger? i met this way hot guy in this club, and he wants to do it. should i? if not what should i do?

Answer 1

Lets see, your in a club and you meet this way hot dude who wants to have sex, so you stop to ask Yahoo! Answers Gay and Lesbian and Transgendered Society whether to have sex? Wow, you have some control there!

Answer 2

There's obvious risks involved that you should consider. No one else can tell you what to do, but you should be thinking about safety at least somewhat.

-If he's physically stronger than you, things can turn scary really quickly. I tend to consider whether or not I could take someone, or at least get away from them.

-You have to assume they have every disease they possibly could have, because they may very well have at least one and they're not likely to tell you. Use a condom (won't help with HPV or herpes, but it's better than not).

-You might consider getting a "buddy" that you plan to call and check in with. If you don't call, they know there's a problem.

I find it peculiar that you don't know what to do if you don't have sex with a guy. you are fully entitled to refuse anyone anything in a club. Doesn't matter how many drinks he bought you, you can still say no whenever you want. If he flips out over that, you REALLY didn't want any kind of involvement with him anyway.

Answer 3

At the very least make sure he uses a condom if you're going to do this. It may be safe or it may not be safe. You don't know this person. He could be a nice guy just looking for sex or he could be another Ted Bundy. You never know. Going home with a stranger shows poor judgment. If this person wants to have sex with someone they don't even know they're probably promiscuous. People who are promiscuous are at a higher risk for STD's

Answer 4

chances are, he sleeps around quite a bit. the risk here is diseases.. if you are comfortable taking that risk, and if you are comfortable with a sexual experience that is simply physical and not emotional, then go ahead... just don't expect anything more out of him. he probably won't even care about your needs. he's just there for a quick screw.. if you want physical pleasure, you're probably best to just stay home and masturbate. you'll be able to please yourself better than he will.

wait, there's more.. he's a stranger.. you don't know him at all. what if he tries to drug you? what if he tries to rob you? what if he tries to hurt you??? that's a major risk there honey..

sleeping with a stranger who is sexy may be exciting, but i don't think it's worth the risks..

and one other thing, what if you get pregnant? do you really expect him to care?

Answer 5

I am sorry to say, but there is NO totally safe sex. The only way to protect yourself completely is abstinence.

Answer 6

Do what you are compelled to do. Are you compelled to have sex with a total stranger? What will come out of it...

Answer 7

You should know that it's not safe,what a stupid question!If you do decide to do it this guy will probably lose all respect for you,why not get to know him first?

Answer 8

r u a small girl taht u're confuseds aboput such thing.....u're a fool if u go doing that........involuntary ina woman is very strong....once she'll havea control on it she can win the world

Answer 9

You absolutely HAVE TO USE PROTECTION if you do. Because you don't know his sexual history, he could have STD's or HIV. get checked yourself as well. Always use protection, even with oral sex.

Answer 10

what ever!
JUST REMEMBER PLAY IT SAFE make him WARE A RUBBER!
RAIN COAT OR NO DEAL! have fun