I have these three friends 1,2,3. 1 and 3 have always been there for me. 2 is just there to comment on 1's life and tell her how lucky she is after she tells us something. Then when i start talking, she ignores me and says "(name) can i have your life?" (1) then i get mad and no one but 3 talks to me. When i get mad at 1 or 2 they don't ask me why am i mad, and when i am mad, 2 says sorry but i know she doesn't mean it by how she talks to me and how she ignores me. But when i'm mad at 1 she doesn't ask why either but she when she says sorry to me, it feels so different. But i never get mad at 3 because she is the one that sticks with me and always has my back. I always wanted to have a friend like that, but sometimes she ditches me and runs around when she is hiper. But i know she is going to come back. Also 2 doesn't like 3 and says that we should ditch her. I don't know what to do, Get new friends? Stay with all three of them? Stay with one of them? Help please!
2006-12-23 07:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think 2 has some issues to work out. Talk with 2. A good friend would respect another friend's decisions. 2 telling you to ditch 3 is not cool. You probably have that personality where you can cope with different kinds of people. Tell 2 lay off 3 and just let 3 be. 2 should respect your relationship with 3. Just tell 2 not to talk smack about 3 or else just leave you alone until she settles down. Then maybe 2 might see some beauty in 3 because you stood up to 3 and might think, "why do you stick with her?" Just stay true to yourself, and don't let anyone change you. A good friend should respect you and your decisions.
2006-12-23 07:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by kwest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch 2. She's the one causing all the drama.
2006-12-23 15:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite all 3 to a slumber party get them wasted while you stay sober , after they pass out place them in comprimising positions and take pics then just blackmail all 3 of them for the rest of thier lives this will give you total control of them all
2006-12-23 15:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brian_Tc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new freinds, but still be friends 3. but really get better friends.
2006-12-23 15:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋