2006-12-23 07:17:41 · 22 answers · asked by Go! 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ok i doubt it u have a daughter. lol this is like your 10th question
2006-12-23 07:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by xoveexo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
definite, you've been somewhat lenient for my section. An 11 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous toddler has no organization going everywhere with out in search of permission from his/her mother and father. If it were me, i'd sit down at the same time with her at the same time as the files is on or enable her study a newspaper or some thing the position she will be able to work out basically how risky the international is ideal this second. little ones are arising lacking and/or useless all too in many circumstances, and in many circumstances that's basically because little ones imagine they are invincible and may do even in the experience that they please. seek for suggestion from at the same time with her and take a verify out to get her to appreciate that asking permission to bypass places is not basically some thing she do out of comprehend and interest for you and your husband, yet because if some thing were to take position then a minimum of you recognize the position she is meant to be. I went with the help of such an element, and my mom requested me how i'd experience if she replaced into meant to be residing house at a particular time and basically did not take position...or left me in school waiting to be picked up and did not call or coach. i'd were devastated...that's how my mom felt when I did not call or enable her understand the position i replaced into. possibly you need to pose the same question for your daughter. also, i'd artwork on implementing stricter punishments. Being grounded for the weekend isn't all that harsh...that's basically some days. i'd remove the failings she enjoys...television, recreation equipment, and so on. for a lengthy time period and she nonetheless does not be able to bypass everywhere besides college, church, and places like that. be confident to describe the regulations of your loved ones to her besides. She desires to carry close previous a shadow of a doubt what's envisioned of her and what's going to take position if she chooses to be disobedient. good success.
2016-12-01 03:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's coming home drunk at the age of 11 the question isn't what do you do with her, it's what do you do with yourself. Obviously you have the problem since you allowed this to happen. So get off the computer (right now).
2006-12-23 07:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by beauty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be mean to people but you are seeming like a bad parent to me. Your eleven year old comes home drunk, you're trying to get her to not wear a helmet and are upset that she wears pink clothes? What kind of parent are you? I'm scared for your daughter. I think someone should punish your behavior, not your daughter's.
2006-12-23 07:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this question for real????? (I can hardly believe it)
But hey, just in the odd case it IS :
-How come she can even go out at night??? She's 11 years young!
-And how come she can get to places where she can obtain alcoholic drinks??
Anyway, I would be very firm with her, tell her (again, probably) the dangers of drinking, ground her for at least a week, and next time i allow her to go out, I'd check out where she's going to, if there's anyone present who can chaperone such young kids a bit, and IF there are alcoholic drinks just for grabbing.
2006-12-23 07:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude every question you asked is about your 11 year old daughter somethings she does are good and some are bad so what if she wants to do her homework then play video games with you thats good soo she dont rot her brain and y would you let her go out at night that late..im 12 and very diffrent from her i dont even want to get drunk and i hate doing homework but i do it and..... y would you let her get drunk?
2006-12-23 07:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by jamie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she come home drunk were you not watching her in that case the blame is on both of so you need to get her to a doctor and then you both need to go to a family psychologist.
2006-12-23 07:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by easy_chic2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she sobers up. do not lecture her. let her know you are there for her. find out as much as you can about what happened and how she was feeling. was she feeling pressured? did she think it was ok to do what she did? how is her self-esteem. let her know your concerns and why you worry about her. good luck. ummm why wasn't she home where she belongs? perhaps you need parental assistance. do you work nights is that how she got out? hire a sitter.
2006-12-23 07:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by ZENOBIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions like this, piss me off because you as a parent, has the power to do something about your 11 year old kid, you just don't want to!!
2006-12-23 08:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by learning where she is going at night, it sounds like you are letting the "parental supervision" part of your job slip a little bit.
2006-12-23 07:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a better parent and know where your child every move is..what is she doing at night to have this occuring? who is she hanging around with? who is in your home..are you drinking? dont have drinks lyin around the house..make it clear to here the effects of alcohol and what it could do in your system..be a better parent
2006-12-23 07:20:43 · answer #11 · answered by Lame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋