my best friend keeps talking about how she loves my life and wishes she had my life. how do i make her stop talking about it?
2006-12-23 07:17:35 · 12 answers · asked by curiositygirl190 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her about making her own life better so she's not so fascinated with yours.
2006-12-23 07:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know that it bothers you that she is so hung up on your life. Explain to her that it would be nice to not always have to talk about YOUR life and that you'd like to know more about her. Find out what is so bad about her life that she wishes it was different. You might really help her out of an issue at home if you just take the time to find out what is causing her behavior.
2006-12-23 07:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our culture, we would present them with the keys to the house and leave. Go on vacation with their monies. ha. That is so rude. Find this and present it to her all wrapped up in a neat bow. Or if you are a good story teller, tell her how you obtained your luck of the draw... 'a story of course, once I told a woman that she understood that the moon reflected the sun? She wanted my tan... and that if she sun bathed at midnight every nite during the full moon her tan would accelerate. she was out bathing everynite for days in the college dorm.... Envy soon follows inconsiderate comments like those.
2006-12-23 11:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds just a wee bit creepy. of course, maybe she's just trying to compliment u and she really feels sorry for u.
if ur really concerned, trying telling her how horrible your life is. lie if u have to. otherwise u can just compliment her constantly, u know: i just love your shirt where do u shop? i wish i were single/in a relationship like u! do all this to the point that she's avoiding u. lol jk but seriously u need to boost her self-esteem about 100 points if she's not happy about her life.
2006-12-23 07:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by blondywithabrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is getting on your last nerve with all her talk about your life. Tell her to talk about something else for a change. Start talking about her life. See how she likes it and then explain to her that is how she sounds when she talks about your life.
2006-12-23 07:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to like her life better. It'll make her feel good about herself and/or let her know how it feels to be bothered like that.
2006-12-23 07:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by GirlieGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your life isn't perfect, especially when someone keeps bothering you by telling you that it is. Good luck.
2006-12-23 07:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Philip Kiriakis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to comprehend what she has asked. i could however ask her if this is positive in case you checked in along with her from time to time to verify how issues are doing and tell her, she will constantly matter on you if she ever needs to speak.
2016-11-23 13:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by chasse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why dose she why your life. tell her somethink about her life that is good.tell her to be her self why dose she what to be lkie some one esle. tell her how lucy she is to be her. there is only one you and no one can take that from you. i hpoe i could help you. good lucy with your freind.
2006-12-23 07:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER 2 SNAP OUT OF IT,OR JUST CALL 911 STALKER ON DA LOOSE.
2006-12-23 07:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋