I'm only 15 and been sexually active for just two years and deliberately chosen to be polyamourous and only with much older men, so I do not have any orgasmic problems, but I have been wondering: I have been told by some married women and other gals who have been in a hetero relationship longtime that orgasms are much easier with one night stand and zipless f**k encounter partners than with their committed partners even when their commitment relationships are good. Is this really what happens? What is/has been your experience? I do think after I've finished university and grad school I'd like to settle down with just one partner but I wouldn't want to miss the great sex like have now (and for me a vibrator just doesn't do it like being enfolded in loving arms while penetrated).
2006-12-23 07:14:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a fascinating observation . . . I'll be very interested in seeing further answers. It seems to fly in the face of logic. Isn't it more fun to experiment with someone who feel comfortable with? This is quite interesting!
2006-12-23 07:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a problem with 15 yr old children having sex. If you been sexual active for two years, where are your parents at? Are they in jail? If not, they should be, alone with all the 18 and over age partners you have had. Matter of fact, all the ones that are under 18 needs to get into rehab also. You need some serious mental help.
2006-12-23 07:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It basically comes down to what ever turns you on more. One night stands suck, it's kinda like the luck of the draw, with those. You might get someone who is pretty good, but really doesn't know exactly what you like, or you get someone that you wished you didn't even waste your time with. With your husband, if he is not selfish and neither are you, you can have the best time each and every time. An orgasm is only hard to get, if you aren't really into it. It more depends on you, then, the other person.
2006-12-23 07:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your 15 and you have been having sex since you were 13?? WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU DOING HAVING SEX AT 15?!?!?!?
My goodness, your opening yourself up to a whole mess of trouble. Obviously you want to have a baby before your 18. Quit having sex and wait till your married to have sex with your husband. Sex was created by God to be between a husband and wife AFTER they are married.
I seriously think you have ALOT of growing up to do. YOUR WAY too young to be having sex.
Obviously your a product of our society, which says just do it, and don't think of the consequences. I sure hope that if you do get pregnant that you make the right choice and give the child up for adoption and don't abort the baby, because with the way your thinking, you are not mature enough to handle the responsibility of caring for a child.
Another thing, if your having sex with guys over 18, your playing a dangerous game, and could get them in alot of trouble, called statatory rape, because if one of the people involved even if it's consentual is under the age of 16, it's illegal for a minor under 16 to have sex with anyone over the age of 18.
2006-12-23 07:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm prepared to wager that that's now a minimum of 50-60% yet on the upward push. you already understand my answer to the BQ, yet i've got had one serious information superhighway affair that in basic terms led to detrimental for me...embarrassing own photos being made public, loss of friends, and worse of all my husband finding out to get revenge against me via having a real existence affair. The few information superhighway flirtations i've got had considering then have been enormously insignificant. you're no longer a creep...you're a ethical-much less heathen putrid rotting cesspool of fail. Why are we friends? You and MM are made for another.
2016-10-18 22:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you are in way to deep for a girl of 15.....if you continue down this path I fear for your future.....How did this happen? No orgasms are not easier or better with one night stands...they are much much much better when they are with someone you love and desire ....someone who loves you so much that they want only to make you happy and keep you satisfied....don't listen to these people.....think about what you are doing with your life...you'll be burnt out by the time you are 25.....I will say a prayer for you....good luck
2006-12-23 08:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual fulfilment and preference varies, depends on the person, circumstances. how long you have been together and each others comfort level. I don't think that one night stands are the way to go, Maybe people think that they had a great time since they were high or drunk or both and also to cover the guilt that stupidity will get you. A person you know well and knows you, be it one partner or more, will know how to please you, all you have to do is communicate your needs and listen to them. And, of course, use protection at all times.
Be smart, be careful. good luck
2006-12-23 07:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Casual sex has produced more orgasms than commited relationships. This is just my experience.
2006-12-23 07:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear! you are too young to be doing all this, but yes this is only my opinion, and this is your life and you have the right to choose.
Well after reading all what you wrote I got the erection...lol
2006-12-23 07:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋