My friend says she wants to stick her finger in my anus and have intercourse with me what should I do?I am serious she is coming to spend the night with me tonight.
2006-12-23 07:06:58 · 33 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, what do you want to do? There are lesbians or bi girls in the teen community - and frankly they have more opportunity for sexual fun because of same sex sleepovers. If this kind of attention is not welcome, you need to tell her and cancel your sleepover plans, I should think.
Peace!
2006-12-23 07:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you uncomfortable then just tell her. im sure she isnt going to force herself upon you! she probably thinks you are into it since you didnt tell her your were uncomfortable with it when she told you all this stuff in the first place. on the other hand it doesnt hurt to experiament, if it doesnt make you uncomfortable you could always try it and see what happens. just do whatever makes you happy, im sure she will be fine with whatever you say if she really is your friend.
2006-12-23 07:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh that is so like wrong
Tell her your straight and don't tell your parents because she is goning to ashame and maybe get in trouble and I hate to feel guilty. Tell her she can't come to your house because you and your parents are going to go somewhere. When she comes sleep in a different bedroom and make sure you lock your door
2006-12-23 07:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by goody2shoe 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her outright that you have no intention of having sexual contact with her. If she insists, then she's no longer acting as your friend and you should distance yourself from her. Even if she agrees that you'll be only friends, don't share a bed with her.
2006-12-23 07:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you gotta know what you want to do..do you want to be lesbian?and why are you having her spend the night tonite..so first you have to realize what you want..if the case is you do want that then just go with the flow..and lock your door!!! if you dont want to do "that" then tell her that you dont see her like that and that you dont want to jeporadize your friendship for this, hopefully she will understand if not then gently lead her to the door..dont spend xmas in a bad mood, so have a good sat. nite wit yo parents.
2006-12-23 07:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lame 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why is she coming to spend the night? That is your house tell her you have changed your mind and find another friend. She is weird!
2006-12-23 07:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
woah.........
ok so do u have the same feelings for her or want to do the same thing for her. i mean maybe shes not straight or sumthin. mayb shes serious abt u or sumthin. i would jus b really scared.
but u no wen she like says that again or sumthin jus b like r u crazy?? (act like iz a jk or sumthin) an b like stop jkin around man. wat a retard (as if ur sayin it in a friend)
than if she says it again, an doesn't get the clue, an u dun wanna do it, jus b like wat? yo i dun do that ****. an tell her mayb it would be better if she doesn't *** if thas wat she wants to do
or u culd jus bullshit an say u got in trouble for sumthin an ur parents said u can't have any friends over.......
but yo good luck wit wat u gon do
2006-12-23 08:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the case WTF ARE YOU DOING LETTING HER SPEND THE NIGHT!?!? if you let her stay over she'll think your a lesbian too. If you are a lesbian then by all means have fun but if your not you should probably reconsider letting her stay over or at least leave the door open all night and have at least 2 feet between you at all times.
2006-12-23 07:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Stunnas on got my stunnas on 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend you just like her as a friend, and don't want to do that, and tell your parents
2006-12-23 11:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off. My guy friends say they would love to have sex with me but when it comes down to it, they respect my wishes. She should respect yours.
2006-12-23 07:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋