i was engagged to a boy whom i was really in love with, he proved to be not good and we were separated, now am missing him soooo much and his birthday is on 4/01 , shall i send him a msg telling happybirthday?! or i musn't do this... as i told before, he proved to be bad :-(
2006-12-23 07:01:00 · 10 answers · asked by pepo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do yourself a huge favor and go to the nearest book store and buy yourself a copy of the book titled HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU,By: Greg Behrendt....it's written in a straight forward, humorous manner to all the women out there who go through what your'e similarily expressing in your question. It sounds like you're feeling a little lonely, melancholy...no wonder the hoildays are here. that's exactly when lonely hearts start to romantize bad realtionships that ended because they were bad...let his birthday come & go because--without acknowledgement from you. spend your time, effort, & money on you ! I'll bet you he's not going to acknowlege yours....why waste your time on a looser who wasn't good enough for you the first time.. how .about getting your head straight--- thinking logically, rather than emotionally----getting yourself ready for when Mr. Right does come along & cross your path. There are so many areas for you to grow & do self improvement....read...read....and read some more.... there are tons of self help books in the Psychology / self help section of all book stores.the information presented in those books are facts based on research & data from real life case studies...you need to keep yourself so busy that there's no window of opportunity to fall into that negative cylce of missing a guy who wasn't good enough for you then , isn't good enough for you now and dahhh------- probably never will be good enough for you ---. Think in these terms theres some guy out there looking for a girl like you...someone who willl compliment your personhood and treat you as well as you deserve to be treated. please don't fall in the trap of wanting something that is bad for you just because you're feeling lonely, Your own good company is far better than setteling for a looser...2007 is right around the corner ! you can do it ! break free from the thoughts of your ex...he's an ex for a reason ---look ahead...the future is bright and waiting for YOU to grab onto all the good things that are coming your way....best wishes to you. Be good to yourself...
2006-12-23 15:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still miss him, you are probably not over him yet! Don't send messages! What's the point? say a prayer for him on his birthday,if it'll make you feel better, but just move on!!!
2006-12-23 15:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by g_liwk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not going to be easy for you, but dont send him anything. Its time for you to move on and find someone new.
2006-12-23 15:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by steffo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. I recently divorced my lying cheating hubby. But on his b-day I decided to say hi. So, I called him. Well, somehow he managed to ask, "Are you still crying for me?" I was like..."What???" Seriously, men are assholes. It will only go to his ego. Don't call him.
2006-12-23 15:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is bad just Forget that little gentleman and be on your way.
2006-12-23 15:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! You will find someone who deserves you.
2006-12-23 15:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave him alone..its time to move on_
2006-12-23 15:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call I know it's hard but don't
2006-12-23 15:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by reeree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-12-23 15:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not.
2006-12-23 15:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋