She DID not listen to me last night, so she got to sleep outside in the freezing cold... LOL... But what are some things I can do to her so she can prove herself that she's worthy to be my fiancee and live with me?
And for those thinking I am joking... I am NOT. You need to live with this woman. She doesn't cook, clean, or do anything for ME. The weak POS should go to NASA and take up space already. She needs to clean her act up.
2006-12-23 06:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you should have never made her sleep outside. This is the person who you call you future Wife, what future she does she have if when she "doesn't listen to you" she has to be put outside as if she was your pet. Now before you even get married you know all her imperfections, it seems as they're all things you look for but she doesn't have them. So are you sure she is the one you want to marry ? It looks as if there is some growing up on the parts of both of you that must be done if you really are considering making the ultimate display of Love which is the beautiful ceremony that we call marriage.
2006-12-23 07:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by premo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um do you do anything for her? Judging by your other questions (especially the one where you said that pushing out a baby didnt look hard, and a man could handle it better, basically saying that the woman is weak), you are an egotistamic whiney brat, and you should not allow her back with you, becuase she would be better off without someone as insensitive and immature as you.
As for cooking and cleaning...Do you want her to be your mother? Sounds like it. You are a big boy and you can take care of yourself. If you want a mother, move back with yours. You sound like a little mamas boy any way.
Good day.
2006-12-23 17:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman sounds like she is not caring for you at all. She does not clean for you, does not cook for you...does not do anything for you then she needs to go for good...you are only together what if you were to get married what is she gonna do when you have kids let them cry while she sleeps? I knew a girl like this and she was dating a good friend of mine and he could not see this and she got pregnant and that is what happened. That is no life you need to kick her to the curb and get a woman who will be there for you and do things for you!!!!
2006-12-23 07:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So okay, she sleeps outside does nothing around the house and needs to clean up her act.
Sounds like you neglected to take her to the dog groomer.
2006-12-23 07:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally couldn't live with someone who doesn't help around the house. My ex-hubby was like that. We had fights about everything. The love runs out. Plus he also cheated--I guess they do when they realize we don't appreciate them for who they are, which I didn't. Good luck.
2006-12-23 06:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is clearly not a good relationship. Neither of you seem to be in the right. Just end it now.
2006-12-23 07:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by avonbycherylann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are the reason that women become lesbians. you made her sleep outside? i wouldve been asleep with someone else. you have a serious problem. who treats people like this?
2006-12-23 07:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's so bad, then why are you putting up w/all of this? Is she that good to sleep w/? It may be alright now, just wait in a couple of years! Believe me!!
2006-12-23 06:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is best rather than abuse her to just confront her.why would u want to do mean things to her, that isn't very loving, that is no way to get her to do things for u, u can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
2006-12-23 12:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really supportive guy! You are sitting here talking about her, why would anybody want someone like that?
2006-12-23 06:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋