i am 13, but i feel like im ready to have sex. i know i should wait, but i dont know what to do. im confused, please, help =(
2006-12-23 06:38:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-12-23 06:43:19 · update #1
You should definitely wait. There are a lot of people who will tell you that you can't wait, that nobody waits but that is NOT true. Your virginity is something you need to protect and believe it or not, NOT everyone is doing it! Wait, wait, wait... you should wait!! Believe it or not, you are still very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. You should wait. You CAN wait. Just say NO! Be strong and be PROUD of it. When you are in control of yourself and of your body, that is the strongest you can be. Don't allow your body to be controlled by other people. You are the only person who can say yes, and you are the only person who can say no. Take the power into your own hands.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 06:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
*************Trust me, you are way to young to deal with the stress of having sex right now.***********
Once you do it, unless you lose it to someone you are completely in love with, you will more than likely regret it. You will feel cheap and used and lost. It's something that you will NEVER EVER be able to get back and if you do it and regret it you will feel so bad honey.
Then there is the STD scare. So many different horrible diseases are out there and most people with something have no clue about having it. Then what if something goes wrong and you get pregnant? You are way too young to be concerned with things such as this.
I know girls are doing it earlier and earlier nowadays but I promise you won't regret waiting til later on... I can't say that about losing your virginity though. I know it's hard and there is so much pressure out there to be beautiful and perfect and do what everyone else is doing and have sex just like everyone else is, but just do the right thing and wait... It's so much better when you do. Don't fall into the temptations of the world and keep strong.. TRUST ME!!!!!
2006-12-23 15:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think ur way too young rite now an u r not ready. although u may think u r, u r defenitly not. now i'm not sayin that u dun no anything or sumthin, but this si going way to fast and impulsive honey. u shuld defenitly talk to some1 about ur feelings and thoughts rite now. u no it doesn't have 2 b ur parents, or teacher, or guidance counciler or sumthin. bcause i no that can be hard, but mayb u can go to a payphone or sumthin an ther r lots of numbers to call to get help on the net......so try it out
but do not, an i repeat do not do it!!!!!! u can lose alot or gain but no one nos. an till there is not defenite certainty u shall not do anything.
an if u r gettin really restles, u can try other things u no, like masturbate (although i'm not really wit that)......but u no anything can happen. i mean even if u use a condom 6/10 people still get pregnant.
2006-12-23 16:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for one very good reason. If you have to ask if you are ready, if you have to think about it, you're not ready. And there is NOTHING wrong with that! Sex involves a lot of deep stuff. DEEP emotions, etc.
Look, there is no rush, and nothing to be gained by rushing into sex. Take your time. Feeling...aroused? There are other things you can do. There are other ways to be intimate as well without going all the way. Take it slow. Your time will come.
2006-12-23 14:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are older you will be happy that you respected yourself enough to wait. the odds are highly highly against you marrying anyone you have sex with right now. or even being in a very long term relationship with them. I sure hope this boy isnt older than you, he could go to jail. you are not physically or emotionally ready for a sexual relationship, there is just no way. Are you on birth control? have you been to the doctor for an exam and pap smear and a script for the pill? if you havent you are NOT ready. condoms are not that effective.. and no way at 13 are you ready to be a mother.
2006-12-23 14:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mina222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am 13 and am going to wait if you have sex it may feel good but it consequence for doing isn't going to be good you might get STD or pregnant and no condoms are not 100% effective. So enjoy your life and wait till marriage or when you find some one who you truly love and can share it with then it will be truly special
2006-12-23 15:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by goody2shoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait. I'm 21yrs old and believe me when you are old enough you will have all the time in the world to experience sex. It's ok to have those feelings, just don't act on them right now. If you feel comfortable enough maybe you should talk to your mom or dad, but if you're not talk to your school counselor. I promise, they won't tell your parents. But if you feel that you really can't wait, please protect yourself by using condoms and don't let anyone talk you into doing anything you don't want to do. Plus, you should consider going on birth control to be safe also. I wish you the best of luck and if you can. just hold out.
2006-12-23 14:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you are going to feel ready, but believe me, you aren't. Half of the adults who have sex aren't ready for sex. The absolute best thing is to wait until you are married to the one you love. Love will come, just enjoy you youth while you can.
2006-12-24 01:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r not gonna b able to handleall of the factors of having a baby if u do get pregnant and if u dont then 9 times out of 10 dat boy will jus wanna have sex wit u after dat andunless u want a bad relationship u shouldnt do it. u should talk to ur mom or aunt or some body if ur still thinkin bout doin dis
2006-12-23 16:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by keepin it reel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13, you really aren't ready. Don't even think about it again until you are like, 17/18.
This is your youth, don't waste it. Do the things kids are supposed to do..like play outside and have fun with other kids..
2006-12-23 14:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Haven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋