Ok I had an X rated dream last night. The stuff that happened was with my best friend only thing is that my friend is a girl! What does this mean? Am I a lesbian perv? Should I tell her? Please help??
2006-12-23 06:16:52 · 10 answers · asked by Casandra 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No you are not a lesbian perv,just human.Maybe you have come to a point in your life where you may want to explore your sexuality,and your dream was just about doing that with someone you feel comfortable with.Dont worry it is normal and so are you.If she is your best friend then tell her about your dream,she will probably find it flattering or really funny so you can both laugh about it.
2006-12-23 06:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by SANDRA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what was in your dream. ALL of it. Are you and your best friend getting along well? Are there unresolved issues between you? What a nice time of year to "make-up" by setting things right, since you call her your "best friend". As for the lesbian thing---only YOU know if you're dealing with that. If you are and you think that your best friend could handle your telling her about your possible "persuasion" and dream go ahead. THINK FIRST, you could lose a friend.
2006-12-23 06:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, lesbians aren't "pervs". Most gays I know have far fewer fetishes or sexual hangups than straight people; they just happen to be attracted to the same gender.
Secondly, maybe you have a latent attraction to your friend. If you do, it's no big deal -- it happens. Depending on your friend's disposition, it might not be best to mention it to her. However, you might want to explore it yourself. Ask yourself if it was "just" a dream.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 06:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are a lesbian perv...it was just a dream...but you cant know how your friend will react...she might think you are a perv and even atart avoiding you...so better let it go and dont mention it.
2006-12-23 06:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mikillah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreaming about sex with the same sex has nothing to do with your sexual preference. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian, or perverted. Dreams about other people have little to do with those people. Dreams are more about ourselves, and those things about ourselves that we are struggling with. Remember most dreams are in the form of symbolism. Nothing is really as it seems.
2006-12-23 06:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that usually dreams are extremes. I think everyone has a few dreams they would love to forget. I think if you were a lesbian you would probably know.
2006-12-23 06:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by ranford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should tell her unless you are on a lever like that with her I think that she might freak out. But it was a dream girls have dreams like that and its normal.
2006-12-23 06:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say nothing look fore-ward and keep doing things as normal it means nothing.Have any of your other dreams come true, see don't worry
2006-12-23 06:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by JCP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a big kiss on the lips
push your hand down her pants
and tell her you love her
2006-12-23 06:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Nobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋