2006-12-23 06:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Moon H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him you will get back to him and then don't!
2006-12-23 06:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...You don't want to leave yourself open , for anyone to walk in and out as they want. But , if this is someone who you shared something that seemed special, then take time out and find out what he's been 'busy' with. It could be that he's been trying to make decisions concerning his feelings for you. I'll say, find out first, then let him in, on your own terms. This all depends on the type of relationship you guys had. make sure you didn't goad him into 'coming' back,. You want to be sure, he made that decision on his own. Then search yourself and see how you still feel for him and what you guys had, then see if you want to give it another go. This time, test the depth of the water with one foot in- not two.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 06:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by g_liwk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are busy! There is NO excuse for 2 months of ignorance.
2006-12-23 06:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by pos190 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say busy with what. My bf did that about 2 months ago and told me he was studing for tests and reg. for college. I told him there was no excuse for him to not call and at least explain what was happing. you should ask and if its not good enough answer than just leave because he might do it again or possibly be cheating.
2006-12-23 06:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your guard up and remember if he was so busy that he was not very interested two months ago, what make you believe he has all of sudden truly changed his mind? He may be rebounding or seizing an opportunity to take advantage of you, or worse....If you don't want to be hurt, follow your instincts...
2006-12-23 06:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hear him out, then I would tell him, ok, I accept your apology. Then I would excuse myself, I have things that I need to attend to. I would not go back with him or even give him a chance. God bless****
2006-12-23 06:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to my new boyfriend. Even if I didnt have a new bf find someone who could pretend and use him because the old bf is an ****
2006-12-23 06:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would smile sweetly and say, "sorry...I'm busy now, having a life. Good luck with yours." Then I would close my door, forget about him, and go on with my life!!
2006-12-23 06:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Judy W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would get rid of him who ignores their girlfriend like that long and then say i was busy i would had been mad if i were u
2006-12-23 06:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that. That is screwed up. If you still like him, make him pay for it before accepting his apology. Don't let him take you for granted.
2006-12-23 06:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by KK1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that the relationship is not fulfilling to me in the way it is supposed to be and tell him that I will be moving on, whether he likes it or not.
2006-12-23 06:10:31 · answer #11 · answered by V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋