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I think that I might be in love... but I am not sure. What is love and what causes it? I need some help please! Thank You. :-)

2006-12-23 06:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

11 answers

Why do fools fall in love? Oh,i mean people... damn I can't imagine.

2006-12-23 06:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by spaghetti 2 · 0 1

I don't believe love is primarily a feeling. Feelings change and people often fall into and out of what they call love rather quickly. I think of love as really being a choice or a commitment to someone we value. Their are of course feelings of attraction, but real love should be lasting and based on a strong sense of commitment. Sternbergs triangle model of love includes intimacy, passion and commitment. All three are needed for real love. Love is really caused in part by the normal human desire for fulfillment in each area of the triangle.

2006-12-23 07:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by jim t 2 · 0 0

love is when you want to do right by that person even if it means sacrificing something yourself. it means encouraging them even if you feel down, being compassionate & considerate even when it's hard. it means being open and vulnerable to that person & trusting that they will take care of you, too. it means worrying about them when they're gone and getting used to their little annoying habits when they're with you (and eventually missing those habits when they're away). experience causes love... although at first it is sparked by infatuation or lust. the love that lasts is gained through experiencing life with someone and earning the trust and faith in them that will help you get through the hard times. but most of all, love is a conscious choice. you have to decide to be open, vulnerable, considerate, kind, trusting, and all of that. It's just finding that person that we think is worth fighting for.

2006-12-23 06:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by roersu 2 · 0 1

To be sincere i am in love but i dont know what love is...its an unexplainable feeling you cant avoid when it gets you.That special feeling you feel for someone..just wanting to be there with them 4ever

2006-12-23 06:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mikillah 4 · 0 0

when you are in love you care about someone and you start bothering that person. You fall in love because sometimes you feel lonely.

2006-12-23 06:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Chel 2 · 1 1

Why do people fall in love? Because that is what people are supossed to do. When you are in love, you will know it.

2006-12-23 06:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Max 6 · 1 1

love is to feel your lover as a part of you , you feel very happy when you meet him , anyone live without love like the stone without heart .

2006-12-23 06:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ravioli man 2 · 1 1

when you feel lonely when not around the person. and if you really love them you would have already told the person about your feelings for them.
best of luck merry christmas

2006-12-23 06:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by 2 cool 4 u 2 · 0 1

Because that's the way we were made. Don't try to be philosophical about it...just accept it. If you think you're in love...terrific.

2006-12-23 06:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

"Gravity can not be held responsible for people falling in love!" ~Albert Einstein

2006-12-23 06:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lilla L 2 · 1 2

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