Or, how soon does a girl start to really enjoy sex if it's too painful the first time?
2006-12-23 05:43:34 · 4 answers · asked by junglejoe 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sex at all points in your life depends a lot on your attitude. If you lose your virginity to someone who you love and trust, and who tries to be a considerate lover, it may not be painful at all. Or the pain may be a small consideration in the new intimacy between you. If you get drunk at a party and lose your virginity to someone you met two hours ago, the pain probably will be magnified by feelings of guilt, self-loathing, and nausea as you spit up your Jagerbombs.
The tearing of your hymen fortunately only happens once, and future encounters, after you have healed up, are usually much less painful. To have completely pain-free sex, you must be aroused and relaxed... aroused to produce lubrication, and relaxed so your vagina expands to accomodate a penis. That's true for your whole life.
2006-12-23 05:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by MissA 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your a good guy so i wouldnt worry. the worst is when a girl looses her virginity to a guy who doesnt care...who takes her selfishly without even regarding the pain behinde it. sex isnt pleasent the first time but its special and can feel good if the person your doing it with cares enough to be gentle.
2006-12-23 13:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pictsy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a little unpleasent and it really all depends on the guy. if the guy is really gentle and caring then it will make it not hurt so much. after the first time it does get better. for me by the third or fourth time it was great!
2006-12-23 15:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt wonderful or painful. the guy was an @$$ and really really small. but after him sex was fine. and it all depends on the girl and the guy.
2006-12-23 17:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by avery's mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋