Lately, I have been having sex dreams and cravings like all the time. I love my boyfriend to death, but I don't want to tell him and pressure him into having sex. I want the first time between us to be special, not pushed onto each other. But on the otherhand, these cravings are getting out of control and I don't wanna end up doing something stupid and having a one night stand with some other guy and then maybe even getting pregnant. I really don't know what I should do.
2006-12-23 05:38:04 · 4 answers · asked by First L 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hormones rage during teenage years, so it's completely normal for you to be having these feelings. Try not to concentrate on your sexual feelings and read a book or exercise. Stay busy when you are with your boyfriend too, it will take some of the pressure off. And if all else fails just pleasure yourself instead of doing things with your boyfriend or any other guy. That will probably release lots of tension.
2006-12-23 05:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, there's pressure and then there's expressing interest. Hopefully in your relationship, you are able to have conversations that start off with awkward phrases like, "Do you think you'd be interested in making love sometime soon?" If you can't have those conversations, you probably shouldn't be having sex. Awkward love discussions are part of adult relationships, and you can't get around them. There's nothing wrong with telling your bf that you want sex... where it would be wrong would be to nag him about it, or to threaten him with sleeping with other guys if he doesn't satisfy you. Like you did here.
Secondly, you are not the slave of your desires. You do not have to run off and have a one night stand and get pregnant. If you find that you are tempted to do that, it's your responsibility to avoid situations where you might. And anyone who can afford condoms or $20/month for the b.c. pill can avoid pregnancy. You can always masturbate to relax your cravings.
Wanting sex is not a bad thing. Sexual compatibility is an important part of a relationship, and you and your boyfriend need to be on the same page about where you are and where you want to be.
2006-12-23 05:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by MissA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on a nice date on a Saturday night, twirl your hair, be very sexy and maybe he'll want to do it.
2006-12-23 05:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzfeet♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this might be helpful
http://spirita.blogspot.com/
check out the post "Sex in dreams"
2006-12-25 03:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋