2006-12-23 05:30:19 · 18 answers · asked by Thomas G 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You screwed up. Now, you should live with the consequences of your actions and take some responsibility. It's called being an adult. Grow up. Divorce her and get it over with. There's no bringing her back. Your relationship with her is ruined because of you.
2006-12-23 05:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on whether she has already in love with somebody else or not. If the answer is no, you may have a fair chance to win her again. Since you have already realised that what you have done is a "horrible thing", that should be reason enough for her to forgive you.
Don't make the mistake of explaining your actions. Just ask for forgiveness. and be sincere and earnest.
2006-12-23 05:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by saudipta c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on HOW horrible. have u apologized yet? if you havent, you definitely should. maybe you should send her flowers or call her and tell her you love her and miss her and that you are sorry. its tough, i know that (i've never had this experience, im only 13, sheesh), do you think that she is currently seeing someone else? if thats the case, maybe you should jsut apologize and ask her jsut to be friends or something. it also depends on whether or not you guys have kids.
2006-12-23 05:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that old saying..If you love someone, let them go...blah, blah, blah...Well If it is meant to be, she will come back. Whatever you did must have really put out her flame for you. You have to redeem yourself to get that flame lit again. Flowers, jewelry, candy, compliments, the whole bit. Good luck.
2006-12-23 05:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ikkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got to show her that u have changed, whatever hurt her and made her leave u have to change, hopefully she hasn't moved on with anyone else. ask forgiveness for whatever she says u did and ask her if she would be willing to seek therapy with you. got to show her by actions that there is a change in you or the circumstances that caused her to leave. got to resolve problems and deal with them.
2006-12-23 05:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has already made her mind up and she doesn't want to come back, there is no way you can MAKE her come back. All you can do is accept that she has moved on and you move on yourself.
2006-12-23 06:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being gone a year, it doesn`t look like she is coming back.
2006-12-23 05:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you did something horrible why would she take you back.
2006-12-23 05:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do her a favor and get that divorce. She will thank you for it.
2006-12-23 05:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win her back the same way u won her over the first time! dont u watch t.v?!?!
2006-12-23 05:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋