I am 30 and not yet decided to marry even no nominee and even i do not want to marry only to get married,i do not consider on social pressure on me but i am bothering,how can i find the common point without breaking their hearts?,this is my life why do they?....
2006-12-23 05:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by brother_suleyman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well ok, if it is family that is pressuring you then side-step the subject as long as it is available... after that point i would just tell them truthfully that you have not found the right person to love, and that you are taking your time to make sure it is forever... and now if it is friends then you can just tell them to mind there own business, lol...... because what are friends for then to do that?... either way dont take it all to heart.. just enjoy your life and keep a fun outlook on marriage and life and others will sure to follow your example!
2006-12-23 05:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by hamesha133 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for not settling for just anybody.. you are waiting for the right person.. and its just not the right time.. Just because you didnt rush into it like all the other people in your family/friends doesnt make you the wrong one here.... its YOUR life.. you can do whatever you want..
Everytime they ask, just answer with a simple, " I'll let ya know when I know" or " When I find the girl Im going to marry" just something simple without making yourself look like an a$$. lol
People just ask you that b/c they want to pressure you a little into thinking more about marriage b/c for some reason they think it will make you happier... They are not doing it to bother you or to be mean.
2006-12-23 05:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you'll get married once you find a guy that's husband-material, in your eyes. There's no rush on marriage, and all this social pressure is exactly why people marry young and end up divorced within a couple years.
You should never marry for someone else, but only marry for yourself.
2006-12-23 05:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them you'll get married when you find someone worth spending the rest of your life with. Tell them you have dreams and aspirations of your own to accomplish, and when you find that certain someone, you want to have something to bring to the table. Good luck.
2006-12-23 11:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you if you CHOOSE to get married-who says there is an age limit that one should be married. If you dont marry until you are 70 who cares! It is NO ONE ELSES business if you get married or stay single.
2006-12-23 11:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time this happens, just smile and say, "I haven't found anyone worth my time." If they can see that you're putting your own desires first, they should back the hell off. Don't ya just hate it when this happens?
2006-12-23 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell anyone who is asking you that to get over there selves... that like you said it is your life and you have to live your life how you want it to be lived... you are the one that is going to have to put up with the consequences..
2006-12-23 05:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your already married, and its not working out.....
2006-12-23 05:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you're busy with your career, or with work. show them that you don't need to be married, to be happy.
2006-12-23 05:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they ask that say, I c ant believe you can ask such a pereonnal question like that.
2006-12-23 05:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋