its my first time to have sex, will i bleed? and how much?

Answer 1

If you are not married consider keeping your virginity. It will be the only gift your husband really wants on the night of your marriage. An experienced worn out toy is never as refreshing as a new toy to play with. Keep your gift wrapped for the special person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Answer 2

Whether it will bleed or not during your first time is really not something we can predict. For some women it will, for others it won't. When this happens this can be caused but a lot of things such as a small vaginal tear/bruises, microtearing of the hymen, lack of lubrication etc. But it's not like every girl with any hymen will bleed, understand that. The hymen doesn't break, it stretches. It's a pretty flexible membrane, so bleeding does not always occur for a virgin. And when bleeding occur, we're talking here about a fairly small amount of blood. It's really not as much as when you're having you're period. And it usually resolves in the following days after intercourse. It really doesn't last long.It's not that big of a deal, not something you should be scared of at all.

Here's some thing to considerate to make bleeding less likely to occur :
- Make sure you're really aroused before beginning intercourse
- Use lubricant (enough of it)
- Go slowly
-Stop if this hurts
- Make sure you're relaxed and not tensed before beginning intercourse

And you can also put a small towel under you, so if any bleeding occur, it's gonna be absorb and will not paint your sheets red.

Answer 3

Not all girls bleed their first time. I didn't. If you do bleed, it won't be much, and it won't last too long. Just make sure you go slow and that you are ready or it won't be pleasureable and you may be uncomfortable. For it to not be painful you need to be relaxed. :)

Answer 4

Don't have sex until you are married. It's so much better.